I'll talk about my abuser. Now I want you all to know mine was removed from my house by a live fire arm squad, to give you the idea of the seriousness of the abuse I suffered.
The statements I wrote about that man to friends in the wake of it all were atrocious. I also went one step further.
My abuser had form for emotionally guilting me the whole "I'm going to kill myself if you leave" fiasco.
Well after I was rescued, he decided to do this. He sent me a string of messages saying he was going to walk in to the sea and drown (he couldn't swim) he also sent these messages to mutual friends. Mutual friends contacted the police.
The police had helicopters, the RLNI, police out on the shore line looking for him. One PC who I don't think had been briefed on the history phoned me to enquire about his welfare, did I know if he was serious about walking in to the sea, did I know what part of the coastline he would go to.
I replied "let him walk in to the sea, let him die, let him drown, it would save me the pain of the upcoming criminal court case, the statements, ever seeing him again"
So yeah in anger I literally willed someone on to kill themselves and deliberately did not give information to increase the chances of them finding him. I knew where he would go.
Anyway they found the fucker, and I had to go to court unfortunately. He did however get a custodial, a GBH charge a kidnapping charge and a attempted rape charge.
People say bad things when they are hurt and angry.