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Part 4 AIBU to keep this discussion on Amber and Jonny going?

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ENoeuf · 22/05/2022 18:39

Just in case we run out on part 3

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BornBlonde · 25/05/2022 19:53

minou123 · 25/05/2022 19:40

Oh, they didn't allow Stephen Dueters text messages in

@minou123 what are his texts and what is the relevance? Sorry but I don't recognise his name

TiddyTidTwo · 25/05/2022 19:54

proc. I've never seen her cry.

ProclivityForPyrotechnics · 25/05/2022 19:57

@TiddyTidTwo she was crying when he read out those texts. It stopped very quickly though.. tmz employee is testifying

ENoeuf · 25/05/2022 19:58

Can't imagine TMZ are thrilled

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minou123 · 25/05/2022 19:59

BornBlonde · 25/05/2022 19:53

@minou123 what are his texts and what is the relevance? Sorry but I don't recognise his name

It was the text from Stephen Deuters to AH apologising on behalf of JD for the kick on the plane.

I haven't seen the texts, but pp have spoken about them in these threads.

There could be loads of reasons it hasnt been allowed in. I think it could be hearsay.

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TiddyTidTwo · 25/05/2022 20:03

TMZ she's done

ENoeuf · 25/05/2022 20:05

So she lied about sending it? Or the lawyers were told to send it?

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TiddyTidTwo · 25/05/2022 20:06

EN she did it then lied under oath. She's done

TiddyTidTwo · 25/05/2022 20:07

She's not smirking now

Legrandsophie · 25/05/2022 20:07

I still think that they are both messed up from their childhood trauma. But if you listen to all the tapes you get a sense that JDs reaction is to shut down, get drunk and zone out (basically escape) whereas AHs reaction is to attack. She criticises him for not fighting with her because she sees fighting as loving.

I agree that they are a bad mix. His staff seemed to see that and were trying to get him away from her. He had been clean and sober before their relationship and she was already a drunk and a coke head. They should never have gotten together.

I believe the relationship was bad but she was the main aggressor. She has huge abandonment issues and has a very controlling personality (see Ricky’s testimony that Amber got into a physical fight with her because of wine glasses).

The question really is for this trial- who has been the most truthful? Who’s version of events do we believe? I’m afraid that Amber has been caught lying about major things too much to be believed. If she can lie about the tapes and the donation and about taking drugs and the rape then what else has she lied about?

ENoeuf · 25/05/2022 20:09

Wtf. People are so rude!

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mummyrocks1 · 25/05/2022 20:10

I*t was the text from Stephen Deuters to AH apologising on behalf of JD for the kick on the plane.

I haven't seen the texts, but pp have spoken about them in these threads. *

There could be loads of reasons it hasnt been allowed in

I didn't realise it has not been allowed in. Was it in the Uk trial? That's a big big of evidence not allowed in. I am a bit behind and I am listening to AH lawyer talking about what is/isn't allowed in. There is lots of critical info that the court has sustained can't be allowed which is detrimental to AHs case. Lots of saying it's here say. I guess it is though as it's just her reporting things or texting.

But why has DR Ks testimony been said to be hearsay? Is because AH told him his info or it's what he observed himself.

Isn't this lots of evidence she relied on in the Uk trial.

TiddyTidTwo · 25/05/2022 20:11

Elaine with 15 minutes of fame??!!! Jesus wept talk about grasping straws

mummyrocks1 · 25/05/2022 20:12

I believe the relationship was bad but she was the main aggressor. She has huge abandonment issues and has a very controlling personality (see Ricky’s testimony that Amber got into a physical fight with her because of wine glasses).

I think she said she hurt AH first not the other way round.

ProclivityForPyrotechnics · 25/05/2022 20:14

Elaine looked like she regretted taking the case for a bit when he said she got 15 mins of fame though!

Boulshired · 25/05/2022 20:15

Feels like I’ve been waiting for months for Neumeister.

ProclivityForPyrotechnics · 25/05/2022 20:16

@Boulshired who is he?

minou123 · 25/05/2022 20:17

mummyrocks1 · 25/05/2022 20:10

I*t was the text from Stephen Deuters to AH apologising on behalf of JD for the kick on the plane.

I haven't seen the texts, but pp have spoken about them in these threads. *

There could be loads of reasons it hasnt been allowed in

I didn't realise it has not been allowed in. Was it in the Uk trial? That's a big big of evidence not allowed in. I am a bit behind and I am listening to AH lawyer talking about what is/isn't allowed in. There is lots of critical info that the court has sustained can't be allowed which is detrimental to AHs case. Lots of saying it's here say. I guess it is though as it's just her reporting things or texting.

But why has DR Ks testimony been said to be hearsay? Is because AH told him his info or it's what he observed himself.

Isn't this lots of evidence she relied on in the Uk trial.

I'm not sure if it was allowed in the UK trial, I assume it was.

There are differences between UK and US rules around evidence. But I don't know all them exactly.

I'm not sure who you mean by 'DR K'?

ProclivityForPyrotechnics · 25/05/2022 20:18

@minou123 Dr Kipper

minou123 · 25/05/2022 20:18

TiddyTidTwo · 25/05/2022 20:11

Elaine with 15 minutes of fame??!!! Jesus wept talk about grasping straws

It was a very stupid question, because he was very quick to accused her of the same!

mummyrocks1 · 25/05/2022 20:18

I am assuming JDs assistant isn't testifying? Why not? Surely he would really help to determine who is telling the truth and what happened.

Boulshired · 25/05/2022 20:18

ProclivityForPyrotechnics · 25/05/2022 20:16

@Boulshired who is he?

He is here for verification of the photographs it hasn’t been good in his pre trial reports, so much there was sanctions asked for

LetitiaLeghorn · 25/05/2022 20:19

I'm a bit behind. What did the guy from TMZ say? Anything relevant? Or nothing really?

ProclivityForPyrotechnics · 25/05/2022 20:19

@Boulshired aah thanks!!