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MIL didn't accept Mother's Day gift

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Gina97 · 09/05/2022 21:02

So I got my MIL a $25 Starbucks gift card for Mother's Day. We have a newborn so I wanted to get her something easy. She came by yesterday and when I went to give her the gift she told me and my husband that she didn't like Starbucks and didn't take the gift. I didn't make a big deal of it but am I right in thinking that this is insanely rude?

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DGay · 12/05/2022 02:59

I totally agree.

DGay · 12/05/2022 03:00

I would rather have a call or visit. I don't need gifts.

DGay · 12/05/2022 03:12

I wouldn't get her anything next time.

DGay · 12/05/2022 03:17

I don't understand mil since she does go to Starbucks. I prefer no gifts but if son and dil gave Starbucks gift card, I would love it.

Needmorelego · 12/05/2022 07:12

@Gina97 oh sweetie you are not shit. Your mother in law is just weird.
You and husband (who is also not a shit - he sounds perfectly normal to me) take your baby to Starbucks and eat as much cake as you can for $25.

Grateful88 · 12/05/2022 12:32

To everyone saying that OP was wrong and that they wouldn't like her gift: you are a bunch of selfish B to the itches. If someone takes the time to get you a gift, ESPECIALLY when they're not blood related to you and they have a newborn baby, I don't care if you secretly don't like it. Don't be a rude c to the unt. It makes many of you sound spoiled and selfish, turning your noses up at a gift card because you "don't like Starbucks" or it wasn't "thoughtful enough." With those attitudes, you don't deserve any friends or any gifts. I'd so like to point out that $25 is a lot to some people, especially when you have a brand new mouth to feed and take care of. I would NEVER be rude enough to tell someone I didn't like their gift. Poor taste indeed.

namechangetheworld · 12/05/2022 12:47

Your MiL was vile and classless and you sound absolutely lovely. I don't like coffee, but would still gratefully accept a Starbucks gift card. Presumably they sell cake/sandwiches/hot chocolate - and even if they don't, that's not the point. Any present should be accepted gracefully, unless it's a literal bag of shit.

mathanxiety · 12/05/2022 22:42

They sell all sorts of baked goodies, hot choc, even tea.

Your MIL could have found something she liked there, or she could have passed the card on to a friend.

For some reason she chose to be really, really rude.

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