Mum thinks this dress isn't right for wedding

[confusedmummy123]

Going to a wedding in a couple weeks. Saw a gorgeous bardot dress, loved it, fiance loved it so ordered it and I love it in real life too. However I sent a pic to my mum who just texted back "I don't like it for a wedding" then didn't say why or anymore? Am I breaking some kind of etiquette? Clueless about these things. Most weddings I've been too I've been the bridesmaid or the bride and don't have a clue how guests dressed. I do remember a wedding a few years back where I wore a red polka dot dress. Don't know if that was breaking any etiquette rules. I do believe that mother likes that dress though! I will attach a pic of the dress!

The second dress is also really casual. Not really suitable for a wedding either.

You’ve had several suggestions. But it sounds like you want something you can wear again. Short skirt a must.

This new look dress could be a possibility. It’s petite. But you don’t look really tall so the sleeves and skirt length would work. Not specifically a special occasion / wedding outfit but you wouldn’t stand out either. £9 plus £1.99 delivery to store.

It's a pretty dress, I love the colour, but it's much too short and shoulders need to be covered. It's a "look at me" dress, whereas people should be looking at the bride.

I have no problems with either dress OP. I should be used to it after two and a half years on MN, but I am always astounded by the threads about "appropriate" attire for weddings and funerals. Thank goodness I live in a more casual country. That's not to say people don't get dressed up, of course they do, but there isn't the same amount of pearl clutching should someone wear something different. Also, struggling to understand what is so offensive about shoulders!

Probably a bit casual/short for a wedding. I would normally say wear what tou want but it is more a holiday/sun dress.

I'm really sorry but both those dresses aren't really smart enough or long enough for a wedding. Maybe a teenager could get away with it at a push. How old are you? Maybe we could suggest something for you?

If you lived near me I would take you for a nice dress that suited your figure and age as not everyone can wear dresses they see online just look at some posters that buy online thy order 1 and expect it to look the same on them and it clearly diesnt ,everyone is different, we are all trying to help you look your best its not about slating your dresses it's about helping you feel and look good in yourself ,no doubt someone will comment on this post lol

IMO the first dress was fine, but I really don't like the second dress. Go with the first one, dress it up with heels and a shawl or something and you will look fine. Don't be so bothered about our opinions, most of us probably looks like a sack of spuds

2nd dress is far too casual! It looks like something I'd wear with tights or leggings and boots, more of a tunic style than an occasion dress.
There are so many lovely dresses out there OP, that don't cost the earth. Maybe you need to go shopping with your mum or a friend who can help advise on the right kind of thing. You seem to not quite get the wedding guest feel somehow.

I also think something longer or more a line would suit you better and look more suitable.

100% this!!!

Definitely a piss take, that 2nd dress is worse than the first one! It looks like it's lost its colour in the wash, looks grubby and I don't think any amount of styling could improve it.

Lol OP, I’ve just ordered the first dress to take on holiday with me! I thought it would be nice to throw on with some sandals and a big sun hat. I think it’s versatile enough to go from day to night in that kind of environment but absolutely not for a wedding! I still think it’s the best out of the two options that you’ve posted though.

Christ, you've got awful taste in (wedding guest) dresses. Way too Not Right.

Now I've seen the 2nd dress this is definitely a piss take. I think if I went online solely to find the 2 crappest dresses, wedding or not, those two would be up there

Yeah I think OP is a wind up

I think you keep just missing the mark, I would take up some of the offers to find something for you within a budget.

@confusedmummy123 are you quite casual usually? This is my problem, I’m just not used to getting dressed up for stuff anymore so it can feel self conscious going ‘too dressy’ and go too far the other way and end up severely under dressed or just boring because I play it too safe.

My cousin had the second dress about 7-8 years ago and used to wear it with leggings to go shopping.

Gosh, the second one is actually worse! If money is a problem, go shopping in second hand shops. And get something with a bit more length.

I'm afraid I agree with most other people. Although the dress is lovely, it's a little informal.

Dress looks lovely but it's more appropriate for a summer picnic or summer drinks at a bar or pub

Or def summer holiday dress

Not for a wedding!

Sorry I have to agree. A casual beach dress, not wedding attire at all. Also personally I think the colour and style is awful and it looks cheap but that's just personal taste!

This is fine though?

Aaargh OP. This also looks like a very casual summer dress for school runs on a warm day or taking kids to the park, not for a wedding. Sorry!!

Haha! Great joke OP!