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Organictangerine · 16/04/2022 19:51

schoolofsexed.org/where

The School of Sexuality Education (which worked on the ‘Family Sex Show’) is apparently delivering sex ed in many schools across the U.K…

Given the organisation feels it appropriate that unvetted Twitter randoms strip naked to talk to 5 year olds about masturbation, not to mention their strong ‘gender’ ideology, I feel it important that MN users are made aware of this.

Interested in any thoughts as well.

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Trudij123 · 17/04/2022 09:47

@Foilball

Two other posters' teenagers have been at a workshop, and one poster has worked with them and all had positive things to say

Sorry, I don't want to trawl through the thinly-veiled bigotry to find them

Oh even better! The more first hand info rather than scaremongering the better I feel.

( I’m on the side of cracking on with it )

Favouritefruits · 17/04/2022 10:19

They seem to be at a private house down the road from me, not a school?

Organictangerine · 17/04/2022 10:24

@Foilball

Two other posters' teenagers have been at a workshop, and one poster has worked with them and all had positive things to say

Sorry, I don't want to trawl through the thinly-veiled bigotry to find them

What bigotry?
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TimBoothseyes · 17/04/2022 10:33

The one I can see near me is on a school that caters for children with complex needs and severe learning disabilities. WTF??

Organictangerine · 17/04/2022 10:34

@TimBoothseyes

The one I can see near me is on a school that caters for children with complex needs and severe learning disabilities. WTF??
Now I really hope that map is inaccurate.
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PriamFarrl · 17/04/2022 10:37

@Organictangerine

schoolofsexed.org/where

The School of Sexuality Education (which worked on the ‘Family Sex Show’) is apparently delivering sex ed in many schools across the U.K…

Given the organisation feels it appropriate that unvetted Twitter randoms strip naked to talk to 5 year olds about masturbation, not to mention their strong ‘gender’ ideology, I feel it important that MN users are made aware of this.

Interested in any thoughts as well.

You say 5 year olds but on the website it says they start at KS3
ifoundthebread · 17/04/2022 10:38

@JaninaDuszejko

The north east is completely free of bananaskins.
They would be laughed out of town if they attended any of the schools in my area of the North East 😂
Organictangerine · 17/04/2022 10:55

Read the full thread @PriamFarrl 🤦🏼‍♀️ getting tired of saying it

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SpinningMeSoftly · 17/04/2022 10:58

One near the Lake District seems to have taken place in my great-aunt's house.

FairyLightPups · 17/04/2022 11:03

Just in case anyone is continuing to refuse to read the comments explaining it: once again, the banana skins are on part of a postcode, not on actual schools.

Verifying the schools they work in publicly WOULD be a safeguarding concern.

AlisonDonut · 17/04/2022 11:23

@Foilball

Two other posters' teenagers have been at a workshop, and one poster has worked with them and all had positive things to say

Sorry, I don't want to trawl through the thinly-veiled bigotry to find them

So no we are bigots for not wanting grown adults getting naked in front of 5 year olds.

Also, you know that groomers PRETEND to be kosher at the start otherwise nobody would let them in, right? Because you have worked with people in this sphere and know the tactics? Or because one person on the internet that you don't even know says it is fine, so it must be fine?

Clueless, utterly clueless.

CheesecakeAddict · 17/04/2022 11:34

@AlisonDonut nobody is bringing organisations to get naked in front of 5 year olds. Although clearly you have either the reading age or critical thinking age of a 5 year old if you think this is what secondary schools are doing. But you are clearly one of these people that choose to believe whatever fits your agenda 🤷‍♀️

AlisonDonut · 17/04/2022 11:39

[quote CheesecakeAddict]@AlisonDonut nobody is bringing organisations to get naked in front of 5 year olds. Although clearly you have either the reading age or critical thinking age of a 5 year old if you think this is what secondary schools are doing. But you are clearly one of these people that choose to believe whatever fits your agenda 🤷‍♀️[/quote]
I literally took it from their website.

SolasAnla · 17/04/2022 11:44

[quote CheesecakeAddict]@mustlovegin there's nothing stopping you having that conversation, but that doesn't mean all will 🤨. And so what, we should just those kids whose parents who don't talk about it? Do we just let those kids go without? And look at the relationships board at the sheer number of woman still accepting shitty behaviour, you are deluding yourself if you think those women have no impact on the future relationships if their children.
When I was at school, it was passing contraception around a room so you could see what it looks like and being told it's ok to say no. It was informative but not empowering and trust me, when you are a 17 year old girl who had been taken 200 miles from home, unable to drive, and your parents thought you were at a friend's house, you were taken into a hotel room by a 26 year old man, you need to be empowered. I was not raped, I did everything of my own volition, but I didn't feel I had the right to.[/quote]
I agree that age appropiate education is useful. Particularly as you point out that some students would come from a homelife which teaches by poor example.

I think that thankfully, most sex ed modules have moved on from say no to exploring what consent and the circumstances where consent is not freely given actually means.

In the situation you described the students would explore why the person who wants to have sex sets up a situation where their partner is not on a position to feel safe and secure to refuse to have sex. Also if the partner is unable to feel safe or secure when saying no, if they had the abilty to consent to sex.
The students should explore who was acting of their own volition, and who was applying coercion to obtain sex.

🌻 I am sorry that that happened to you. That man (at 26) knew that situation was wrong.

Organictangerine · 17/04/2022 12:03

📢 THE CHARITY HAS WORKED WITH A THEATRE COMPANY TO PRODUCE THE FAMILY SEX SHOW (RECOMMENDED AGE 5+) WHICH FEATURES NON VETTED ACTORS FROM TWITTER STRIPPING NAKED AND TALKING TO CHILDREN ABOUT SEXUAL PLEASURE, MASTURBATION AND ‘USING PLEASURE AS A VEHICLE FOR CONSENT’ THIS IS WHAT WE ARE REFERRING TO NOT THE SCHOOL WORKSHOPS 📢

LINK TO FAMILY SEX SHOW HERE
thefamilysexshow.com/

AND SOME HELPFUL SCREEN SHOTS

to ask if your child’s school is on this list?
to ask if your child’s school is on this list?
to ask if your child’s school is on this list?
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AlisonDonut · 17/04/2022 12:17

Mummy, what's BDSM?

I know a really cool theatre show we can go to for you to find out all about it. Hopefully, they can explain Pegging whilst they are at it.

FFS. Safeguarding is based around red flags, and abused kids often show signs of hyper sexualised behaviour.

If all the kids show hyper sexualised behaviour, then the abused kids just meld into the background.

So this behaviours is not picked up on and actual abused kids are not identified and can't be helped/rescued etc. So who benefits from this?

CheesecakeAddict · 17/04/2022 12:50

@AlisonDonut so my comment stands. It literally says they offer their school services for ks3 upwards and there is nothing about stripping off. Ks3 is 11 years old upwards.

@Organictangerine if you are not talking about the school workshops and instead a different theatre group they are affiliated with, then what is the purpose about getting people riled up about school visits?

Organictangerine · 17/04/2022 12:53

[quote CheesecakeAddict]@AlisonDonut so my comment stands. It literally says they offer their school services for ks3 upwards and there is nothing about stripping off. Ks3 is 11 years old upwards.

@Organictangerine if you are not talking about the school workshops and instead a different theatre group they are affiliated with, then what is the purpose about getting people riled up about school visits?[/quote]
Because I felt it important that parents know that a charity that is capable of such a catastrophic error of judgement may be teaching their child. Not rocket science is it?

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FiveNineFive · 17/04/2022 13:01

Because I felt it important that parents know that a charity that is capable of such a catastrophic error of judgement may be teaching their child. Not rocket science is it?

But you have not been saying that. You have been conflating the two deliberately and disingenuously

FiveNineFive · 17/04/2022 13:03

Which is actually incredibly reminicent of "anyone opposing section 28 is a pedophile"

AlisonDonut · 17/04/2022 13:05

[quote CheesecakeAddict]@AlisonDonut so my comment stands. It literally says they offer their school services for ks3 upwards and there is nothing about stripping off. Ks3 is 11 years old upwards.

@Organictangerine if you are not talking about the school workshops and instead a different theatre group they are affiliated with, then what is the purpose about getting people riled up about school visits?[/quote]
Hi.

No, they literally say nudity is present in a workshop for ages 5 and up. I've screenshot it above for you. A workshop where they tell you to get comfortable before you see their genitals.

Innocenta · 17/04/2022 13:11

@FiveNineFive Comparing this creepy stuff to Section 28 is actually really offensive.

FiveNineFive · 17/04/2022 13:14

I didn't compare it, I compared Organictangerines behaviour around it

SolasAnla · 17/04/2022 13:16

[quote CheesecakeAddict]@AlisonDonut so my comment stands. It literally says they offer their school services for ks3 upwards and there is nothing about stripping off. Ks3 is 11 years old upwards.

@Organictangerine if you are not talking about the school workshops and instead a different theatre group they are affiliated with, then what is the purpose about getting people riled up about school visits?[/quote]
@CheesecakeAddict

Do you think that the Family sex show as designed is age appropriate for a 5 year old?

If you do think it is age appropiate for a 5 year old can you explain why?

If you do not think it is age appropiate for a 5 year old can you explain (which stakeholder) who you believe should take ownership / responsibility for making the decision to allow it to be marketed to 5 year olds?

Some stakeholder
• 5 year old audience members
• adult accompanied by 5 year old
•The hired actors
•The management of the theater group
•The staff assigned by the educational organisation.
•The management of the educational organisation
• The venue provider
• The governmemt for providing funding.

Kurtanforpm · 17/04/2022 13:16

If it’s for KS3 and up, then why is my dds primary school showing?

It’s on her school - no other schools around for almost a mile each way and no
secondary close.

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