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To think this isn't normal re DS 12

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Deereemer · 20/03/2022 18:13

Ds got a tech ban this weekend due to unacceptable behaviour yesterday. The bam is for 3 weeks as things have been getting out of hand with how he has been, increasingly rude, shouty, downright aggressive at times.

He is in his bed crying and i mean wailing because he will miss the new fortnight update. When he stops crying he just stares at the wall and doesn't do anything at. All.

I am worried this is a sign of gaming addiction or depression, i don't know.

Any advice welcomed

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DomesticatedZombie · 25/03/2022 20:28

Not all forms of socialising are positive. There are other ways to socialise, and other games.

Yep. Find it really surprising so many will defend a game just because it involves socialising. I mean, so does grooming. Doesn't mean it's automatically a good thing.

Pumperthepumper · 25/03/2022 20:29

@OrlandointheWilderness

😂 3 weeks is long?! I got so sick of bad behaviour when asking my 10 year old to come off the iPad I removed it for 6 months! Yes I have tried short term ramifications and she knew it would happen. Plus it wasn't done in anger, we sat down together and I explained I was concerned she was struggling with the emotional and mental effect of it.

Talk to him. Don't cave, but there may be more going on than you realise.

Why did you give them it back at all?
ChateauxNeufDePoop · 25/03/2022 20:37

@Deereemer

Thanks jungle. Hang in there. Fortnite is like a gateway drug ime. Seems fairly innocent and then as they get better and better its actually totally over stimulating, violent and addictive.
Fortnite isn't violent. Think you've outed yourself as a troll with that. Hopefully anyway.
ChateauxNeufDePoop · 25/03/2022 20:42

Interesting these threads about kids gaming behaviour are always about Fortnite despite it being one of the milder PUGB games and always appear after an update....

Porcupineintherough · 25/03/2022 22:03

Fortnite isnt violent

Of course it's violent Confused

Lhddujvf · 26/03/2022 04:18

Three weeks is massively over the top.

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