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Female swimmers beaten by transgender athlete stage podium protest at ‘unfair’ result

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whytcvv · 19/03/2022 05:47

When will the rules change as I completely agree this is unfair and I expect that you will all largely agree with me.

For anyone that doesn't agree, please explain your reasoning to help me better understand.

This reminds me of the weightlifting story from last year.

People that are born female and people who are born male should not be competing in these events together. Our physical bodies are not comparable.

Have as many genders as you can think of, but there are only two possible sexes that you can be born as and that is what eligibility in these competitions should be based on.

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whytcvv · 19/03/2022 06:31

@Boredoutmymind

your wrong saying only 2 sexes can be born. do some research .

some women are stronger, taller than some men and other women. should these women not be allowed to compete?
transmen can compete with cis men in sports.
so transwomen can compete with cis women in sports.
should we have weight and height classes in all sports?
Where does it end?

too much transphobia on here.

When I wrote two sexes I knew someone would pull me up but that was quick.

Aside from intersex there are predominantly two sexes for humans. Male or female. Read the nuance of the post.

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DuckyNoMates · 19/03/2022 06:34

@Boredoutmymind what is a cis man and a cis woman?

TracyMosby · 19/03/2022 06:37

There are plenty of other issues with this transgender athlete too. Such as the female swimmers feeling very uncomfortable at the erect penis of a straight make displayed in their changing rooms whilst they are changing, and they have been told saying anything / changing elsewhere is not an option.

DoobryWhatsit · 19/03/2022 06:37

I find this all particularly mind boggling considering that a few years ago the IOC banned a specific swimsuit because it was deemed to be too bouyant, and to be giving athletes an unfair advantage!

DuckyNoMates · 19/03/2022 06:38

@TracyMosby that sounds awful. There is no place for erect penises in the women's changing room.

notyourmummy · 19/03/2022 06:38

[quote DuckyNoMates]@Boredoutmymind what is a cis man and a cis woman?[/quote]
Cis means they identify with the gender they were born as, ie. Born female, identify as female.

LaChanticleer · 19/03/2022 06:39

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LaChanticleer · 19/03/2022 06:40

at the erect penis of a straight make displayed in their changing rooms whilst they are changing

Ugh. That is abusive

Awalkintime · 19/03/2022 06:40

@QuebecBagnet

And according to the other swimmers this person frequently drops their towel in the changing room making it very clear to all that they still have a penis. So now some of the women don’t want to get changed there. Why would this swimmer do that?
If they did that in public and flashed it would be considered a crime but in a women's space the victims are considered the criminals if they complain.
bellabasset · 19/03/2022 06:40

YANBU. Labiur's stance on this is the reason I don't support Keir Starmer.

LaChanticleer · 19/03/2022 06:42

@walksen

"My understanding is that sex is determined by the size of the gametes"

Maybe you should do some extra research then because this is nonsense.

Grin

Oh the irony

Porcupineintherough · 19/03/2022 06:43

@notyourmummy how do you "identify as female"? What does that actually mean?

I dont identify as a woman, I am one.

gunnersgold · 19/03/2022 06:44

Surely intersex isn't a sex though is it . It's a biological error . They will still have make or female genetics if you checked ?
What is dsd ?

TracyMosby · 19/03/2022 06:45

'Multiple swimmers have raised it, (male female-attracted swimmer showing his penis in the changing room) multiple different times,' the UPenn swimmer said. 'But we were basically told that we could not ostracize Lia by not having her in the locker room and that there's nothing we can do about it, that we basically have to roll over and accept it, or we cannot use our own locker room. It's really upsetting because Lia doesn't seem to care how it makes anyone else feel,' the swimmer continued. 'The 35 of us are just supposed to accept being uncomfortable in our own space and locker room for, like, the feelings of one.'
Disgusting.

Porcupineintherough · 19/03/2022 06:47

@gunnersgold no intersex isnt a sex it's a Difference in Sexual Development (DSD)

LaChanticleer · 19/03/2022 06:50

@gunnersgold

Surely intersex isn't a sex though is it . It's a biological error . They will still have make or female genetics if you checked ? What is dsd ?
DSD or VSD stand for Differences in sexual development Or Variations in sexual development

People born with DSD are still sexed male or female. There will always be a range of genetic variations - it’s how sexual reproduction works. The existence of people with DSDs is actually proof that there are two sexes.

Humans are mammals. We reproduce sexually.

Hertsgirl10 · 19/03/2022 06:50

@Boredoutmymind

your wrong saying only 2 sexes can be born. do some research .

some women are stronger, taller than some men and other women. should these women not be allowed to compete?
transmen can compete with cis men in sports.
so transwomen can compete with cis women in sports.
should we have weight and height classes in all sports?
Where does it end?

too much transphobia on here.

This is the problem right here.
notyourmummy · 19/03/2022 06:51

I think that makes you a Cis woman...maybe my definition was clumsy, it's not my field of expertise!! Cis means you don't identify as something other than the gender assigned biologically to you, I guess?

Pyjamagame · 19/03/2022 06:52

I just don't understand this 'gender identity'. I mean, the only reason I know I am a women is because I have the body of a woman. I wear trousers and t-shirts, but like cooking and DIY and I am always the navigator on family days out. I mean, how does a person 'feel' like a man or a woman? How does a person 'live' like a man or a woman? It all sounds so sexist to say 'I wear a dress and like pink therefore I must be a woman and must change my body accordingly'.

knittingaddict · 19/03/2022 06:53

@Boredoutmymind

your wrong saying only 2 sexes can be born. do some research .

some women are stronger, taller than some men and other women. should these women not be allowed to compete?
transmen can compete with cis men in sports.
so transwomen can compete with cis women in sports.
should we have weight and height classes in all sports?
Where does it end?

too much transphobia on here.

Well that's women's sport down the toilet then. Angry Happy with that are you?

My husband isn't a big man by any means and he will always be stronger than me and stronger than 99.9% of women.

Did you see the photo of that trans woman? Of course they have an inbuilt advantage of height and strength. It would be laughable if it wasn't so tragic.

It would be wonderful if women boycotted events like this, but why should they have to do that?

Porcupineintherough · 19/03/2022 06:53

@Pyjamagame quite.

gunnersgold · 19/03/2022 06:54

Ah ok , I didn't know they had changed the name of intersex . Makes sense to me they should have been one or thr other and their genetics will show this . The outside parts ( and some inside ) aren't formed correctly during development in utero.

notacooldad · 19/03/2022 06:55

Women in sport may as well pack up and go home. It is becoming pointless for them to compete.

So this athlete wants to be a woman but keeps their penis.
That's make entitlement at its finest.

whytcvv · 19/03/2022 06:56

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LoopyGremlin · 19/03/2022 06:56

It’s completely unfair, and actually infuriating that this person undermines all the years of training these women have done. I have no issue with how people identify but can’t condone this. There needs to be a special category for trans athletes as that’s the only fair way. And the erect penis in the changing room sickens me. We have to protect these safe spaces for women. I have a young daughter and this terrifies me.

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