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Female swimmers beaten by transgender athlete stage podium protest at ‘unfair’ result

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whytcvv · 19/03/2022 05:47

When will the rules change as I completely agree this is unfair and I expect that you will all largely agree with me.

For anyone that doesn't agree, please explain your reasoning to help me better understand.

This reminds me of the weightlifting story from last year.

People that are born female and people who are born male should not be competing in these events together. Our physical bodies are not comparable.

Have as many genders as you can think of, but there are only two possible sexes that you can be born as and that is what eligibility in these competitions should be based on.

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Ereshkigalangcleg · 19/03/2022 08:56

He walks around with his dick hanging out, and calls himself a lesbian.

How completely surprising and unpredictable.

Hoppinggreen · 19/03/2022 08:57

@Boredoutmymind

your wrong saying only 2 sexes can be born. do some research .

some women are stronger, taller than some men and other women. should these women not be allowed to compete?
transmen can compete with cis men in sports.
so transwomen can compete with cis women in sports.
should we have weight and height classes in all sports?
Where does it end?

too much transphobia on here.

It ends by men competing against men and women competing against women. I used to swim at county level and despite being fat and 50 I am still pretty fast. My 6 ft 13 year old who has size 11 feet is starting to overtake me despite rarely swimming and not learning much technique.
Quincythequince · 19/03/2022 08:57

@Ereshkigalangcleg

He walks around with his dick hanging out, and calls himself a lesbian.

How completely surprising and unpredictable.

Quite!
oakleaffy · 19/03/2022 08:57

Fair Sports have Mens and Women’s categories,
Men’s and boys muscle mass and skeletal development is so different to that of a Womans.

Sports should , if they want to be fair, have Transwomen classes.

Whyemseeaye · 19/03/2022 08:57

It’s absolutely unfair, and just another way for people born male, whether that identify that way or not, to prevail over women who were born and live as a female.

I genuinely feel that women are supposed to just give up any space they hold without a murmur of objection.

There should be a grouping for trans athletes to compete together.

It’s nonsense to say that’s it’s all equal. Imagine putting a woman who identifies as a man in a boxing ring with Tyson Fury. It’s just unthinkable.

Eyedropeyeflop · 19/03/2022 08:58

That man is a cheat and he knows it.

oakleaffy · 19/03/2022 09:00

How on earth can a man be a Lesbian?

A male Gay friend is a member of a specific Gay men’s group that i’d love to be part of.

I put it to him that I could ID as a man and could go-

He replied that it would not be possible as I’m not a man, and not a Gay man.

dementedma · 19/03/2022 09:01

If an able bodied athlete decided to identify as disabled but clearly wasn't, would it be ok for them to compete against disabled athletes? There would be an outcry about how unfair that was. And rightly so.

MingeofDeath · 19/03/2022 09:02

I can't wait to see Antonia Joshua fight in a boxing match...

oakleaffy · 19/03/2022 09:03

@dementedma

If an able bodied athlete decided to identify as disabled but clearly wasn't, would it be ok for them to compete against disabled athletes? There would be an outcry about how unfair that was. And rightly so.
Very good point.
Gowithme · 19/03/2022 09:04

The male category in sports should be changed to open so that any gender can compete in it and the female category should be women who were born female only (including IMO the likes of Castor Semenya who is XY but naturally higher testosterone due to internal testes (DSD)).

Waitwhat23 · 19/03/2022 09:05

I see a couple of posters have linked the boys v women website where it shows, very starkly, how teenage boys can beat the records of female Olympians. In some of the event times compared, there had been a new World record set for a women's event but that time was still surpassed by an athletic teenage boy.

The difference in rankings for Lia Thomas is also just as stark. #462 in men's swimming. #1 in women's swimming.

WutheringHeights66 · 19/03/2022 09:06

There should be separate sporting competitions for transgender athletes. In the same way Paralympics have a distinct disadvantage in most sports against able bodied athletes, trans women should not be able to compete against women. Because they are men with a physical advantage.

Waitwhat23 · 19/03/2022 09:07

And to further expand on the word cis, I've seen many posters on other threads insist that 'cis just means non trans'.

It doesn't.

Cis is a Latin prefix which means 'on this side of'. It is used (correctly) in scientific research to refer to chemical bonds. It was co-opted (incorrectly) by social science researchers around 1994 as an antonym for trans.

I've seen people (here and on other platforms) insist that women refer to themselves as cis against their will while simultaneously insisting that women refer to other people using their 'preferred pronouns', sometimes under threat of police action.

public.oed.com/blog/december-2015-update-new-words-notes/

MaryAndHerNet · 19/03/2022 09:07

I'm not a vet, but I know what a dog is.

Nuff sed

Quincythequince · 19/03/2022 09:08

@oakleaffy

How on earth can a man be a Lesbian?

A male Gay friend is a member of a specific Gay men’s group that i’d love to be part of.

I put it to him that I could ID as a man and could go-

He replied that it would not be possible as I’m not a man, and not a Gay man.

Don’t get me started on this!

Fancy a bit of lady dick maybe?

If, as a lesbian you won’t entertain a cock, you are apparently transphobic!

Women, only women, get this grief.

Eyedropeyeflop · 19/03/2022 09:09

@MingeofDeath

I know right let’s say AJ transitions into a female and decides to step into the ring with Katie Taylor

Yeah…. Can’t see a problem with that Hmm.

Theeyeballsinthefuckingsky · 19/03/2022 09:09

Just a reminder of the level of batshittery we’re up against though

twitter.com/shereebekker/status/1504899936843935746?s=21

TLDR we have segregated sports because men were afraid women would be better and more popular than them

WonderfulYou · 19/03/2022 09:11

There are many transphobic and sexist man haters on MN which can mean the actual message gets lost.

I do not care what gender someone identifies as but I completely agree that biological men and women should not compete unless it’s a mixed sex competition.

Caitlin Jenner a famous ex Olympic champion and famous transgender person is very passionate about this which she gets hate for all of the time but as she’s an ex athlete she has more experience of this than most.

ThatsNotMyGolem · 19/03/2022 09:12

If I need a surrogate, will Lia Thomas be able to do it?

Nnique · 19/03/2022 09:12

C** is an incredibly offensive term. MN will delete it if reported, if it’s been used directly toward someone.

I am a woman. No prefix or qualification required. My biology dictates that. Males do not get to co-opt my biological reality.

oakleaffy · 19/03/2022 09:12

@Ponoka7

06:06Boredoutmymind, it doesn't matter how tall etc a woman is, a biological male body has an advantage over a biological female body when it comes to sports and fighting. Why should we change what's been a system since the beginning of time to accommodate transwomen, when it means that they have an unfair advantage over the born women and are obviously going to win? There's no reason why they can't compete as their biological sex, accept generally they aren't good enough to.
Exactly.

How could that swimmer who was slow against their true sex think that a win against women is “ Fair”

A medal or prize won ethically and fairly is worth so much more than what is an unfair competition.

It’s shameful that it’s allowed to happen.

Foxandbee · 19/03/2022 09:13

@ChiefAdjusterOfRubensShorts

I totally agree with you OP.

There should be a separate category for trans athletes.

If this happened, would we see fewer sportsmen transitioning to female?
FrippEnos · 19/03/2022 09:13

@DrivingHomeChristmas

Are there any stats on how many times Transpeople don’t win at races? Maybe she was the best because she was so motivated and worked hard? It must take a lot of determination to be a trans athlete and maybe that determination is in her sport preparation too.
Except even thomas themselves admits that they don't have to train as hard.
Maybebaby8 · 19/03/2022 09:14

There was a reason that male and females were separated in sporting events. For the very reason that men and women can not compete to the same level and it was unfair.

But now a biological male has decided he would like to identify as a woman, whilst retaining all of his biological male traits and compete in a Female event is absolutely ridiculous, and it actually makes a mockery of the rights women have fought to have.

I'm not interested in whether a man or women want to dress as the opposite see, do what ever makes you happy. However you can not expect them to compete against one another.

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