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AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

To wear tights with knickers?

145 replies

WobbleMolly · 25/02/2022 19:15

Someone said you're not supposed to wear underpants when wearing tights - that they are 'pantyhose' with the pants built in. Have I been doing it wrong all my life?

I've googled and there seem to be different opinions, but I wanted to see the percentage split. AIBU TO wear tights with underpants underneath?

OP posts:
RedScarfJamjar · 25/02/2022 20:41

@Athena51

Dear ladies please tell me all about wearing tights with no knickers , thanks Herbert- not at all creepy...Hmm
Whilst I agree entirely with this, I am chuckling along at this army of Mumsnetters in their double pants armour. Take that pervs!
LoisLane66 · 25/02/2022 20:41

Tights usually have a seam from front to back.
If you don't want to be cut in half then wear knickers.

Feather12 · 25/02/2022 20:41

My Nan used to wear her knickers over her tights. Grim.
Once she forgot to put the knickers on and told EVERYONE we met. Thanks Nan.

RealBecca · 25/02/2022 20:43

Poking out pubes or chafing, TOUGHIE!

BrutusMcDogface · 25/02/2022 20:44

I remember when I was in primary school and my friend and I noticed that someone had pants over her tights. We wondered if we should tell her she’d put them on the wrong way round! 🤣

Benjispruce5 · 25/02/2022 20:44

I wear knickers with tights. Tights don’t have a cotton gusset.

cuno · 25/02/2022 20:45

I've gotten my skirt tucked into my tights several times in the past. Hate to think how mortifying that would be without pants!

ElIie · 25/02/2022 20:46

@starfishmummy I still don’t get it though. Is it that people are buying the wrong size or brand? When I wear mine I literally cannot see how it is physically possible for them to fall down - they cling to my body.

AstonMartini · 25/02/2022 20:47

Tights are vile. A yeast infection waiting to happen, with or without pants. As for two pairs of pants: , in olden days MN parlance.

I have not worn tights since I was about 9. Horrible garments.

Sunnytwobridges · 25/02/2022 20:55

Yuck, I couldn't imagine not wearing anything underneath. But I know soooo many people that don't.

FavouritePi · 25/02/2022 20:56

I'm a one under and one over type of gal so whoever said that would be appalled by me.

JellybabyGina87 · 25/02/2022 20:56

Are you the poster who likes it when you buy new nylons. Lol

IlFaitBeau · 25/02/2022 20:57

Hi Fergus,

I will not be sharing these stories with you, unfortunately.

Good luck with the hands and the hair and all that.

MrsDeadpool · 25/02/2022 20:59

[quote ElIie]@starfishmummy I still don’t get it though. Is it that people are buying the wrong size or brand? When I wear mine I literally cannot see how it is physically possible for them to fall down - they cling to my body.[/quote]
Shorter women like me find that the legs are a bit long and the crotch drops during wear. My lack of length in the trunk and chunkiness round the middle also means that the waists tend to roll over. I can’t buy smaller sizes or they don’t fit round me. I’m 5’3” and a size 16, with a ‘fashionable’ arse. If I could get them in a petite size, then I’d be very happy.

starfishmummy · 25/02/2022 21:01

I dint know. I've tried many brands and sizes over the years. Even if I find a pair that works there is no guarantee that another pair from the same brand and the same size will be the same.

And yes they cling in places but the gusset always seems to droop...

viques · 25/02/2022 21:01

Double knickers here too. Or should that be two?

Crossfitwidow · 25/02/2022 21:02

No, I even wear a pair over the top just to maintain some dignity. I have been known to sit at my desk not realising my skirt has essentially become a belt…. I imagine tights could become whiffy quite quickly without knickers.

starfishmummy · 25/02/2022 21:06

@MrsDeadpool I'm a short chunky person too, maybe that's the problem. Back in the 90s (maybe even the late 80s) M&s used to do a specific size aimed at short fat people - so fitted the bigger sizes but without the extra long legs they usually do in the plus sizes. Was gutted when they stopped making them.

TrippinEdBalls · 25/02/2022 21:09

[quote starfishmummy]@MrsDeadpool I'm a short chunky person too, maybe that's the problem. Back in the 90s (maybe even the late 80s) M&s used to do a specific size aimed at short fat people - so fitted the bigger sizes but without the extra long legs they usually do in the plus sizes. Was gutted when they stopped making them.[/quote]
I don't think it is the problem because I've always thought that the reason mine fall down is because I'm tall - and it used to happen even when I was very slim! I think the reason is just that tights are generally crap (I do find that snag don't have this problem - I assumed it was just marketing hype but they genuinely work for me)

MrsDeadpool · 25/02/2022 21:16

[quote starfishmummy]@MrsDeadpool I'm a short chunky person too, maybe that's the problem. Back in the 90s (maybe even the late 80s) M&s used to do a specific size aimed at short fat people - so fitted the bigger sizes but without the extra long legs they usually do in the plus sizes. Was gutted when they stopped making them.[/quote]
Yep, those are the ones I wore for work in my 20s. It would be great if they brought them back!

bigyellowTpot · 25/02/2022 21:18

I don't often wear tights but when I do yes I always wear knickers underneath them.

ElIie · 25/02/2022 21:19

@starfishmummy and @MrsDeadpool Ah maybe that is it. I have very long legs and so does my mother so maybe that is why neither of us have ever heard about it?

Rogue1001MNer · 25/02/2022 21:20

It wouldn't be Friday night without a perv.

EmpressSuiko · 25/02/2022 21:20

Personally I buy cheap tights from primark or supermarkets so I don’t know if them being cheaper makes a difference but no matter what size I buy they fall down so it’s easier to pop a pair of knickers or shorts over the top!

SailingNotSurfing · 25/02/2022 21:22

@DiddyHeck

Eh? Why do you care what complete strangers thinks of your knickers/tights wearing?

This place gets stranger every day.

Great place for pervs to hang though I guess.

Friday night innit? Wink