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Is there a medical diagnosis for hating people coming into your house?

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shelleyshell · 20/02/2022 21:01

Hello people,
it is my first post on here and am not sure if I am in the correct place but.....
I hate having people in my house! I like my mil but she comes in way to often, my 14 year old Daughter has a boyfriend that I see too often, nothing against him I just don't want him in my house - he is currently restricted to 2 days per week.....and the main one...

my husband has a friend I dislike and he comes over every month for the whole weekend, I always go away but I still hate himmin my house!!

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Knobhead101 · 21/02/2022 17:32

@Sparklingbrook my bag is right by the front door, so I grab that!

@ABitOfAShitShow I'm not Jane, but I wish I was as she probably got paid for submitting that! I'm dispensing advice for free on MN!! Missed a trick.

Sparklingbrook · 21/02/2022 18:01

[quote Knobhead101]@Sparklingbrook my bag is right by the front door, so I grab that!

@ABitOfAShitShow I'm not Jane, but I wish I was as she probably got paid for submitting that! I'm dispensing advice for free on MN!! Missed a trick. [/quote]
I'm sure it is but I still don't think the whole ruse of 'I'm going out' would actually work if you clearly weren't. Grin What if they got back in their car immediately after being rejected then decided to make a long phone call. Would you have to go out somewhere?

I'm not a good enough liar I don't think.

GertrudePerkinsPaperyThing · 21/02/2022 18:28

I think it’s a personality thing rather than a diagnosis. You’re probably introverted and like your own space! Nothing wrong with it but you’ve all got to compromise.

RampantIvy · 21/02/2022 18:51

I agree it is a personality thing. As I said earlier DH is very introverted, but he still enjoys having visitors because we don't have them very often, and because if it is DD's friends or my friends he retreats into his office or the spare bedroom upstairs that we have turned into a sitting room.

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