[quote cuno]@seaniboy
And when F keep saying to men in the public arena under 30 whos brains aren't fully developed is "you are male - a perpetraitor - not a victim. The 99% statistics say that is absolute proof" that is a injustice to men, male victims and society.
Oh so women are F now? 
why couldn't you muster the word women?
Women aren't going around saying to men under 30 that they are male and a perpetrator and not a victim. That is literally not happening.
And why the emphasis on men being under 30 with brains not fully developed? I find it a bit odd that you felt the need to say that. Like oh poor little men who don't know any better being brainwashed by big evil women.
What about the women under 30 with brains not fully developed being silenced by men who tell them they are lying about being raped? Or that they were asking for it? Or that they liked it? Or that that are sluts? And so on.
Woman then dismiss young men the victim of sexual crime. That's what females are telling male victims en masse. We own #metoo! Now I stand by metoo but where are the woman of the movement telling men to speak out about toxic sexual male predators ? They aren't, thus more toxic males are getting away with past crimes.
It is patriarchal structures largely enforced by men that dismiss male victims of sexual crimes. Blaming women for toxic masculinity is incredibly short sighted. Women may or may not conform to the patriarchy, but they are not the ones who have held and continue to hold the power for centuries and created all these rules through their own misogyny that men torture themselves with. It's a fucking byproduct.
And why the everliving fuck is it women's responsibility to get men to speak out? What about men's responsibility? No-one looks out for women apart from women, but men expect women to look out for men as well. It's tiring. It's exhausting. Men can fight for men, that is not my battle. I've had enough of it. Women already have so much on their fucking plate.
And the point of #metoo is to bring justice to rapists and abusers. It just so happens that most of these voices are women, because women have more experiences of rape and sexual abuse. We can't just shut up about our own awful experiences to make room for yours. Women speaking up about the abuse they have faced does not make men get away with abusing men, wtf.
The 99% is a small number of actual men. And we are only talking about sexual.
Men don't talk ? Men dont open up,en need to talk about being sexual victims. Well look at you saying that 99% of crimes are men, in context that's not 99% of men, it's a small minority of men.
Literally no-one said 99% of men are rapists but carry on making up shit to clutch at straws. However, I disagree that it is a small minority of men, I genuinely think most men (more than 50%) have either raped, sexually assaulted or sexually harassed a woman. Why? Because that's what mine and many women's experiences allude to. It's absolutely not a small minority of men though no matter which way you look at it, unless you genuinely think a handful of men are going up and down the country abusing almost all the women. Funnily enough, me and my friends seem to have different abusers so can't be that surely.
The gender and language has to change to make domestic and sexual crimes more inclusive where men will come forward rather than your own of the 99%, it has become to feminist and not enough victim based.
If 99% of reported sexual offences are perpetrated by males, then that is a fact and there is nothing wrong with stating that, and it is entirely relevant. You only want women to be silent about the truth because that would be beneficial to you, it must be uncomfortable to know that you share the same sex with 99% of sex offenders. But that does not mean we are calling you a sex offender, ffs. Just please check your own biases here.
Not sure wtf you mean by gender has to change?? Perhaps men should make that so by raping less, just a suggesting. (And repeat after me, it is sex not gender).
And no it's gender specific, and some perpetraitors like both victims.
I'm sure some perpetrators are bisexual... what is your point??? No-one said otherwise.
One one hand woman want men to open up, on the other hand throwing 99% men around is making male victims submissive to not speak up.
Men should want men to open up, again why is this on women? And I can't change the overwhelming number of male sex offenders to make male victims feel more comfortable. And I refuse to lie about it as well.
Biology makes a more sexual being, man period 24/7, designed to survive the species, a gentleman rarely makes a rapist.
We're just talking about men and women as groups. No-one used the word gentleman apart from you, but I find it to be a very outdated term. Depends on what you think a gentleman is exactly?
So more than one factor comes into it, just as more than one gender is guilty and more so more than one gender is victims.
Stop conflating gender with sex, good grief. But yes there are people of either sex who may or may not be a perpetrator or victim... but again the fact is it is overwhelmingly men doing it.
Domestic abuse and sexual crime perpetraitors are of both genders, it time we told all victims to speak up not wave 99% flags like a feminist nationalist metoo movement
Not sure what any of this has to do with nationalism, but there is zero shame in feminism or the #metoo movement. I am a feminist and proud of that. You seem to be using this as an insult.
The end goal is men and woman alike want men and female (especially sexual) perpetraitors off our streets for the safety of everyone.
That's not true though. Men aren't as bothered about it as women because they don't feel at risk to it. That's why you mainly see women fighting for it and rarely men. Men usually only speak up about it as a silencing and manipulation tactic on women (woman complains about rape and fear of men, man tells her it happens to men too, but outside of this context man does not show any interest to it).
Also lots of men out there enjoy using and abusing women so would disagree with that sentiment, although they may not admit it. At the end of the day, the patriarchal structures are largely beneficial to men.
It not healthy to society using 99% because it implies it 99% of men which is literally fake news.
It's not literally fake news at all when you are purposely taking the 99% figure out of context and maipulating it and pretending people are saying 99% of men are rapists when no-one said that. Fake news is such an old tired phrase, anyway.
It also represses male victims, sexual crimes are crimes, you can't wave a flag that's almost deliberate misleading, a small number of men make up the 99%.
You are the one deliberately misleading by taking what women have said and twisting it to mean something else.
So so much talk in your posts about women this women that, blaming women for men being sexually abused and not speaking out about it. Where's the blame on men? Nah, it's always women. Just like it was Eve in the Garden of Eden. Yawn.[/quote]
I typed female, autocorrect.
Science has proven ghe 4 stages of maturity of the male brain, after 4 and testosterone dropping and a mid life crisis "how did I get here I don't Sign up for all this" and walking out, men are easily manipulated by woman who mature much quicker due to the biology of the female body, when 35+ is a higher risk to woman carrying child men are generally having mid life crisis.
I don't condone that behaviour anymore than I do any male police officer investigating such, that is a place sexual crimes of either gender that having male officers involved is toxic by design, because statistics show men are more likely to be the perpetrators so why would other men investigate that, especially men with no legal or medical or social work degree, all male officers should have one of these to be allowed near sexual crimes investigations or data, if you don't remove the non degree toxic there you'll never remove it from society to any acceptable percentage or standard. Male officers should not be involved with sexual crimes against male predators, the narrative sexual predators are all.mainly council house & poor is exactly what they males in positions of trust in public funded bodies in want you to think. Fake news.
Again you are dismissing a males point of view to saying woman are the main victims, you aren't, children know no different than whats normal & child sexual abuse is very high with the same sex. As a adult is when most men try to report that and it's very dismissive in public funded bodies. So metoo has to be be about both genders, stop fighting allies for who want the same outcome 'accountability' by being non inclusive because most perpetraitors are men, don't cancel culture male victims include them in the fight or the toxic will always win: divide and conquer, letting the toxic control the narrative and win.