[quote Awalkintime]Every woman knows someone who has been sexually assaulted or raped yet no one knows a rapist.
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Problem is that allows men assulting males of any age be more underground driven by shame.
Imagine a police officer son assulting a same gender, there's a higher chance the female allegation will be investigated.
The problem is highlighted by woman in a manner it's gender exclusive, it's not, most men never try take action, that's why rates of male are lower reported than they should be.
Assualt of any kind is such, gender needs to be removed from it in some context other than directly on court date if you are lucky to get that far.
As for police, I don't think male officers should be handling Domestic abuse or sexual crimes at all in positions of power, certainly not the heads of these up units.
Another massive problem with domestic abuse is the lack of mental health training on for life mental health issues, a police officer should be able in the heat of the moment attandance be able to recognise the main things of bipolar, schitozophrenia and narcassist behaviour patterns with repeat offenders the way school teachers were once the best Social Workers, now first contact police/schools have no adquete training on these to highlight, take action and stop cycles.
A police officer should be trained and able to spot a behaviour that may be mental health and have facilitates outside NHS MH for assesment by another independent (non profit!) body.
As for kids, equality doesn't start at home it's starts by a teacher and school being inadequate. We still have no dentists or child behavioural specialists in our schools like it's 1922!
If we don't give our kids the best care under a 5 day week of intervention then it's hardly surprising the state of society, school is educational but wheres the education that teachers get from a onsite child behaviour specialist where a auditory, mental health or otherwise is picked up asap, and then not dealt with by a NHS Trust exclusively after 1 or more visits months apart.
Inequality breeds comtempt, that's what we teach kids.
There no independent body for behaviour specailist at each school training teachers, evaluating kids and holding police, councils & NHS to account.
Child abuse happens because we live in a 1930s system, that effects equality and how that child may develop in every way into a adult, even a rapist adult.