@MrsAmaretto I’m so sorry about your mum. 
In 2020 DS2 was working in A&E and DDIL was a renal nurse. They live with her parents while their house is being renovated (I think they were actually house hunting at this point) but they couldn’t stay because her dad is CEV. We were in a right state because they had nowhere to go. They couldn’t come here because we live 2.5hrs away and and the hospital had no rooms. DDIL’s best friend, her DP and their baby moved out of their home and into her parents’ so that DS2 & DDIL could live, rent free, in their house for 4 months.
When Delta arrived DS2 and DDIL moved into a caravan on her parents’ drive to keep her dad safe. DS2 had his Christmas Eve birthday in there, they saw no one. We didn’t see them at Christmas because they both worked and we weren’t allowed after that. We did their Christmas and birthdays in May 2021. DS1 and DS2 didn’t see each other for almost a year. Just after Christmas last year DS2 lost one of his colleagues to Covid.
It makes me absolutely sick that families like mine, and millions of others, made huge sacrifices yet the very people making the rules just couldn’t be bothered. Children missed birthday parties, leavers parties, proms, school plays, sports days, GCSEs, A Levels etc but they just cracked on. It’s not right. I’m so angry about it all. He needs to go and we need a system in this country where we can get rid of our PM when they behave so appallingly.