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If we have to vote this year or the next, women who will not vote Labour due to the GRA raise your hand

670 replies

TerraNovaTwo · 20/01/2022 20:54

As above

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Notonthestairs · 20/01/2022 21:30

I am a GC feminist. But I am also a carer. I have a teenage disabled daughter.

Frankly I can't limit my voting choices based on GC issues.

There are 7 million carers in the UK. 58% are women.

MistyGreenAndBlue · 20/01/2022 21:30

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Theunamedcat · 20/01/2022 21:31

I cant vote there is nothing left to vote for there will be no country left under the Conservative government but the others are just as bad

Pixiedust1234 · 20/01/2022 21:31

raises hand

electrolite · 20/01/2022 21:32

Won't ever vote for a party that can't tell me what a woman is.

Alcoh · 20/01/2022 21:33

@Notonthestairs would you like your teenage daughter cared for by a woman with penis? That’s how serious this is.

SiobhanSharpe · 20/01/2022 21:33

@Notonthestairs

So where does this leave disabled women?

Or carers?

Or women living in poverty?

Well, they're all or mostly women so the answer is, under a Labour government, they'll be unable to say their predicament has anything to do with their sex. As Susan B Anthony famously said "no self respecting woman would wish or work for the success of any party that ignores her sex."
TameDucksAtChatsworth · 20/01/2022 21:33

@Blessex

Won’t vote Labour because of this shambles
What a bunch of gormless spineless shits.

Who let them out without their mother.

The men saying this are bad enough but the women are absolutely treacherous and for what...to get their non binary arses further up the greasy pole.

Greenfields124 · 20/01/2022 21:33

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Theeyeballsinthesky · 20/01/2022 21:33

As far as I’m concerned, Labour along with Lib Dem SNP Green Plaid Cymru etc are all going along with something that is patently untrue vis men can become women by saying that they are one

Now there is no way they actually really believe that. There is no way they believe any one can change sex. They also do know that biological women are at greater physical risk of attack from men, are the only sex that gets pregnant, have been discriminated against for centuries simply for being women. They know all that - or they’re catastrophically stupid

So either they’re catastrophically stupid or worse they are prepared to go along with something they know is untrue and will harm women because they think it’s a vote winner or that women don’t matter

And that makes me wonder who or what else they’d be prepared to throw under the bus so why on earth would I vote for them

Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g · 20/01/2022 21:35

I have the luxury of doing this, though, because I live in a very safe Labour seat. My vote counts for nothing. If I lived in a marginal constituency I'd have to think far longer and harder about this.

Last general election there was an excelllent gender critical Green Party candidate in our constituency, so I voted for her.

KrakowDawn · 20/01/2022 21:35

@Notonthestairs

So where does this leave disabled women?

Or carers?

Or women living in poverty?

Labour don't know what women are, so they certainly won't be able to be helping disabled women or women in poverty.
BlackeyedSusan · 20/01/2022 21:35

I am a disabled woman and I can not vote labour because of the GRA issue. I am also a carer and think it is important for my disabled daughter to not be cared for or exposed to males in female spaces.

JayniSummers · 20/01/2022 21:36

Nope never.

Noisyprat · 20/01/2022 21:36

I won’t vote Labour because of this

ilovesooty · 20/01/2022 21:36

I hope those sufficiently privileged to be able to vote on this one issue or spoil their ballot paper will be happy to see a Conservative government in power for the foreseeable future.

Notonthestairs · 20/01/2022 21:36

[quote Alcoh]@Notonthestairs would you like your teenage daughter cared for by a woman with penis? That’s how serious this is.[/quote]
What will the Conservative party do for disabled women, carers and women living in poverty?

Blessex · 20/01/2022 21:37

@TameDucksAtChatsworth I used to like Lisa Nandy. Now I think she’s just stupid.

If we have to vote this year or the next, women who will not vote Labour due to the GRA raise your hand
Blessex · 20/01/2022 21:38

@Notonthestairs look I am with you. Issue is. If women lose this battle we will never get it back. Now we need to dig in over this issue. Then once we have it we can then go back to dealing with the other shit. We cannot let this one be lost or it will be lost forever.

Theeyeballsinthesky · 20/01/2022 21:40

It’s not our fault that Labour have behaved like such utter tests over this issue

They have been asked time & time again to stop parroting TWAW, calling women bigots for not agreeing & for failing to publicly support one of their own MPs

It is labours job to convince me to keep voting for them the way I have all my life

Instead they said they didn’t need or want the vote of GC women

They won’t be disappointed then will they?

Or they could you know stop being dicks & start listening to women

Franklin12 · 20/01/2022 21:40

I am no way a Labour voter in anyway but are they stupid and not wanting to be a credible option?

This is a huge issue and yet they seem completely oblivious to it and every so often one of them makes some stupid statement. Yes looking at Lammy and Nandy and to top it all they then have Starmer who doesn’t seem to be able to guide any of them.

If they carry on like this they are 100% going to lose again despite what Boris and co do.

It’s all a horrible mess for Labour. Shame on them.

chilling19 · 20/01/2022 21:42

@SiobhanSharpe

Me. Left the labour party over this. Spoilt my last ballot paper.
Me too
ladygindiva · 20/01/2022 21:42

Another here. Lifelong labour supporter but no more.

Blessex · 20/01/2022 21:43

And where the hell is Jess Phillips. She has lacked backbone over this. She tweeted something supportive of GC but then deleted the tweet. We are watching Jess. Rosie Duffield needs you and you aren’t there. I have lost respect for you over this.

Sexnotgender · 20/01/2022 21:43

Me.

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