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Money - has dd got a point?

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bendmeoverbackwards · 13/01/2022 16:57

Dd is nearly 15. A few years ago she had quite a bit of money from an event plus money from relatives, birthday money etc. She used some of it to buy a laptop and a few other bits. She agreed she would save the rest and I opened a separate savings account for her where, at the time, she was earning a bit of interest.

Then interest rates dropped so I shopped around to get her a better rate. I opened a Junior Cash ISA which is paying 2.25%. However the money is locked in until she is 18.

She's now very upset that she can't access the money. She wanted some expensive trainers for Christmas, I said I would pay up to £X and she would fund the rest. However she thought she would take it out her savings and I thought it would come out of her monthly allowance from us (£50/month).

I opened the ISA partly because of the interest, and partly because I didn't want her frittering away her savings on clothes.

She says it's her money and for her to decide.

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ArthurTudor · 15/01/2022 19:48

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ArthurTudor · 15/01/2022 19:49

The fact is I shouldn't have to defend my choice. You lot are vultures and keyboard warriors

I'm done with this website. It's impossible to have a proper debate on anything

elelel · 15/01/2022 19:58

@ArthurTudor

The fact is I shouldn't have to defend my choice. You lot are vultures and keyboard warriors

I'm done with this website. It's impossible to have a proper debate on anything

Defend your choices all you like, that's all anyone else is going. Nobody needs to be name called for discussing differences in opinion. Your post I referred to above was way out of mine though.

elelel · 15/01/2022 20:00

Oh fuck off. How's that

Ah, I missed this.

Are you actually telling me to fuck off because o do t agree you should be using a mother who commuted an awful crime against her child to prove your point?

Harmonypuss · 18/01/2022 22:18

I would suggest that if she wants said trainers, she pays her contribution from her monthly allowance but then if there's something else she wants that would have come out of her savings then you could offer to pay for it but that you get those funds from her account when she's 18.

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