I don’t need a “not all men” disclaimer!
It is absolutely disgusting that whenever a woman is abused, or raped or murdered then someone swoops in with their cape on the not all men us to death!
I’m sick of it. If men got other men together and helped to stop violence against women, then maybe we wouldn’t even need to have to talk about a woman being murdered.
You know what’s offensive? More offensive than saying men and not quantifying it with “some” men? That people have the unmitigated gall, the audacity to act like women don’t have a right to say men. Yes men. You’re all part of it. A woman being murdered in the prime of her life is offensive! Being taken away from her family .. that’s offensive!
You might not be out raping and murdering, but you laugh at rape jokes, you watch porn, you whistle at women and harass women in the street, or you spend time with men that do this.. you live in a system that tells you that your feelings and right to not be bunched in with the animals who do these disgusting things overrides women’s rights to not be harassed and exploited, raped and murdered.
Fuck. Your. Feelings.
Go not all men down at the pub or with your male friends. I’m sick of women being told to “be nice”. Don’t lump them all in together. Why not.. so the precious fee fees of men don’t get hurt? Meanwhile how many women have been murdered be a man in the past hour?
What has quantifying gotten us. What has that gotten us? Raped and murdered. Exploited and harassed. And no change.. so this empty “some” men means nothing to women when we are disproportionately murdered by your hands.
I’m not going to say “some” men. Obviously not all men rape and murder. But I don’t owe men that courtesy.. not when a woman has lost her life.
It’s absolutely offensive that people have the audacity to even come here to chastise me! How dare you! I don’t even know this woman, but I’m sick of hearing about women being murdered for doing the most mundane things.
But you’re offended because I didn’t say “some”. If you don’t get your own act together… seriously. This is exactly why men do what they do to women.
This is what entitlement looks like! A woman murdered in broad daylight while minding her business.. but not saying “some men” is more offensive.
More offensive than a woman being murdered? Honestly.. I’m not entertaining such foolishness.
I said what I said. Men… you all need to get your act together! I don’t give a damned about “good men”. You too! I’m married to a good man and I told him he is part of the problem too.
That’s what’s wrong with you. You think because you’re not a rapist or murderer you’re “good”. The bare bones minimum of being a decent human being?
The bar is set so unbelievably low for men that you even think you should be congratulated for being one of the “good” ones. Hell.. if all it takes to be a good person is not rape and murder then that’s a pretty low bar. But then again.. it’s ok for men to be mediocre and do the bare minimum and we are all supposed to clap, and give awards.
Give me a break. All these “good men” yet Domestic violence is sky high, rapes happening with little convictions, women murdered daily.. like I said. All men need to get their act together. Even the good ones.. because your rape crazy and murder crazy fellow men make you all look terrible. And the cause is not helped when instead of understanding why women are angry you choose to “not all men” us. I’m definitely not the one for this. I will not entertain this. If it doesn’t apply to you then move on.
I said what I said.. all men. Go complain to your male friends about it and perhaps come back to us with some solutions.
Women have plenty of solutions that we have tried to implement to not be murdered.. so I want to know what the men are coming up with besides MRA nonsense and mansplaining to us how to “just use common sense” so we aren’t raped and murdered.
I’ll wait.