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To think I’m losing this pregnancy :-(

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Pearldrops04 · 15/12/2021 07:28

Found out I was pregnant Monday morning after a long battle with infertility and being told it was unlikely we’d conceive even with IVF. As you can imagine, I couldn’t believe my eyes (had to go out and get a digital to see the word pregnant with my own eyes, which it did!)

I was 11DPO when I found out, due AF tomorrow. Today I’m 13 DPO, did a test this morning and lines are still strong, but since Monday evening I’ve been having brown discharge intermittently when I wipe.

Last night there was a pinky discharge when I wiped, this morning after I did my test there was brown.

I know there’s nothing I can do but wait and see what happens Sad I’m just gutted. I’ve wanted this for so long and when I got that strong line on Monday and positive digital I swear I was SO unbelievably happy but since the brown discharge started I’ve been a nervous mess.

I’m just convinced I’m going to come on tomorrow and it’ll have been a chemical 😔

I’ve attached some photos of my tests, should the lines be darker by now? Top Clear Blue is Monday’s test, bottom clear blue is yesterday’s test, didn’t have one for this morning. The others are easy @ homes from the last couple of days and then the one on its own not on paper is from this morning.

To think I’m losing this pregnancy :-(
To think I’m losing this pregnancy :-(
To think I’m losing this pregnancy :-(
OP posts:
Rumplestrumpet · 13/02/2022 20:38

Oh I remember this! Had everything crossed for you and so glad all is well. Enjoy the rest of your pregnancy

QuiltedHippo · 13/02/2022 20:40

How wonderful!

Amymamabear89 · 13/02/2022 20:41

Aaaaah congratulations! I’m glad everything is going okay for you now! Keep us all up to date!! X

RoseGoldEagle · 13/02/2022 20:42

Aw what a lovely update and a fab scan picture! Congratulations OP, please update again when little one arrives!!

Whatafustercluck · 13/02/2022 20:42

Amazing news op, fantastic. Congratulations! Grin

LakieLady · 13/02/2022 20:42

Really pleased for you, OP. You must be so thrilled.

cherish123 · 13/02/2022 20:44

How lovely 😍

Darbs76 · 13/02/2022 20:45

Aww congratulations, lovely scan photo, all the best

Lindaloo08 · 13/02/2022 20:45

Such a brilliant update, delighted for you both xx

Summersdreaming · 13/02/2022 20:47

Lovely update, congratulations Flowers

Mo1911 · 13/02/2022 20:47

So happy for you. Congratulations and keep us posted!

ittakes2 · 13/02/2022 20:48

Op I am sorry you feel stressed. But please don't assume this means you are miscarrying. I had IVF and we were always reassured that bleeding could be many things not necessarily a miscarriage. In fact I ended up in hospital for bleeding and lots of women were in there for the same reasons. You would be shocked how much some of these women bleed including me and gave birth to healthy babies. Also has others have said brown blood is old blood - likely left over from your last period. It's red blood that is new and red due to be oxygenated. When an embroy burrows in for implantation some blood can be created. Try not to worry and speak to your GP we are all hoping for good news for you.

ittakes2 · 13/02/2022 20:49

Sorry also didn't read to the end - congratulations!

Bizawit · 13/02/2022 20:50

❤️❤️❤️ congratulations op!!

AllOfUsAreDead · 13/02/2022 20:51

Congratulations! Flowers

Duckduckduck123 · 13/02/2022 20:57

Congrats Mrs Flowers

mommybear1 · 13/02/2022 21:07

Congratulations 🥳

featheryfancy · 13/02/2022 21:33

What a lovely update to see. Congratulations Thanks

Ellowyn · 13/02/2022 21:37

That update brought tears to my eyes and I'm very stoic normally.

I had loads of miscarriages in the first month. I'd have a positive pregnancy test and then I wouldn't. It happened at least 6 times that I'm aware of. My last pregnancy, I thought I was over dangerous first month - I was 15 weeks actually and suddenly I had heavy bleeding. All over my clothes and in the toilet bowl when I peed. I was devastated. I saw my midwife the next day. She did a scan and there was his little heartbeat!! The bleeding came from polyps on my cervix.

He's 33 yrs old now and a few weeks ago I was told I was going to be a grandma. They told me as soon as they had a positive test and I started to really worry, but it's proceeding fine. DIL told me she had morning sickness every day all day and I said, "Good". I had to explain...

Doggynoname · 13/02/2022 21:39

Awwww congrats. I think it’s a little girl ❤️

PinkiOcelot · 13/02/2022 21:41

Congratulations!!!

TheDoveFromAboveCooCoo · 13/02/2022 21:43

Huge congratulations! This is so lovely!

FlibbertyGiblets · 13/02/2022 21:45

Lovely update, so pleased.

aibutohavethisusername · 13/02/2022 21:46

Fantastic update congratulations 🎉

AFingerofFudge · 13/02/2022 21:49

Great update, glad all is going well!

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