Would you still come to my wedding?

[weddingpanicomicron]

It's this Friday.

We're fully paid etc and desperate to go ahead. Have asked guests to lateral flow beforehand. 96 guests confirmed.

Worried people will think we're mad for pushing on given all the Covid news.

YABU - people secretly won't want to come
YANBU - go ahead and enjoy

If I'd said I'd be there I'd be there. I might not accept a new invitation for this weekend (because of the risk of isolation disrupting Christmas plans) but I won't let down those I've already agreed to.

I was in Leicester Square at the weekend. No sign at all that people are staying at home! The place was rammed and all the bars heaving.

I would, although I might not stay to the bitter end.

I would. Last month my friend, loosely invited me to her birthday meal in a few days time. But I've heard nothing else? No set time given yet. I have no idea if it's been cancelled or going ahead. If it's still on, I would still go, providing I can make the set time.

Yes I would come.

Yes I'd still go , have a wonderful day op

I would, I have a Wedding to attend in a couple of weeks, in fact!

Unless it gets cancelled or I get covid myself (really hope not), I will definitely be there.

Presumably people RSVP'd and would let you know if they intended to cancel?

They must know their vaccination status, mask tolerance, and personal risk-benefit assessment in the context of what you're saying about LFT?

Have a splendid and memorable day.

Yes @weddingpanicomicron and I'd be very grateful for the opportunity to have fun as much as we can before further lockdowns possibly limit what we can do. I'm sure I'm not alone in that and that some of your guests feel the same.

Invite me if you like.

I’m vulnerable. Have been unsure what I should be doing for months but for bigger events I’ve been asking myself “would I feel upset or depressed on the day if I knew it was happening and I wasn’t there?” Trying to balance the risk with my mental health.

So if you were my sister or best friend I’d be there. My cousin I rarely see or hear from, not at the moment (I love a wedding usually)

Thank you for the invite. Can I bring a date? Is there a free bar?

presumably those that have accepted already want to come, and will do so unless they have a positive test/some dire lurgy that's not covid but don;t want to spend the day alarming other guests by coughing all day.

Yes of course

What covid news?

I hate weddings but at the moment I’d come to the opening of a fucking envelope.

I’d come

I’d attend. Have a fab day OP.

@speakout

No- but I dislike weddings, so Covid would be the perfect excuse not to come.

The surely you will have already declined? It’s really poor to grab a last minute excuse if you never even wanted to go.

I would. Lft no problem here either.

don't worry about it, and have a brilliant day

Yes I would. Yanbu.

I have covid but otherwise I’d go.

I think it would be really rude to cancel at this short notice unless you had covid or were very clinically vulnerable. I’d be anxious if I’m honest but I’d still go.
I’d ask everyone to LFT beforehand.

Yes, I would definitely come! I would use Covid as an excuse to leave my DC at home though (it's circulating in nurseries and preschoolers have very poor personal hygiene).

Yes I would.

I'd come but wouldn't dance. We went to my cousins wedding - abroad; EU - late October and did exactly that. The brides sister couldn't attend because she caught covid - and wasn't vaccinated .

I would

We are in! We aren’t fussy eaters and are off work on Friday