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Would you still come to my wedding?

185 replies

weddingpanicomicron · 06/12/2021 18:49

It's this Friday.

We're fully paid etc and desperate to go ahead. Have asked guests to lateral flow beforehand. 96 guests confirmed.

Worried people will think we're mad for pushing on given all the Covid news.

YABU - people secretly won't want to come
YANBU - go ahead and enjoy

OP posts:
CloudyStorms · 06/12/2021 18:59

Too close to Christmas to risk it

IncompleteSenten · 06/12/2021 18:59

I would do an lft if I wanted to go, yes.

Be aware though that people may say they've done one even if they haven't. People can be weird.

FreedomFaith · 06/12/2021 19:00

I wouldnt want to this close to Christmas as I wouldn't want to spend it in isolation, but I would have said no to the invite when you first asked because of when it is.

If I wasn't bothered about catching something and having to isolate, I would be fine coming.

evilharpy · 06/12/2021 19:02

I'll come, I could really do with going to a party. Is it a child-free wedding? Because I also a know a very well behaved 7 year old who loves weddings/any sort of a knees up.

Aprilx · 06/12/2021 19:02

Count me in.

MrsBungle · 06/12/2021 19:03

Yes I would. Hope you enjoy the day! 👰‍♀️

MrsTimRiggins · 06/12/2021 19:04

Oh I would so be there! Congratulations 🎉

EllieSattler · 06/12/2021 19:04

Doubt you'd want me, half of DH's work team have covid, DD's teacher and TA have covid. Under old rules we'd be isolating but are expected to crack on now.

JSL52 · 06/12/2021 19:06

Yes please !

Blossom64265 · 06/12/2021 19:06

Unless you are an incredibly close relative, I would have declined the invite initially because of being CEV. So the recent news won’t have changed anything.

SheldonesqueTheBstard · 06/12/2021 19:07

I love a wedding.

Nothing better than seeing a lot of love floating about 💕

I would come in a heartbeat.

But I won’t because I will absolutely ruin your photos. 🥴

Have a wonderful day. And save me a wee bit of cake 🙂

Galaxyinmypocket · 06/12/2021 19:08

Yes, I would attend.

Workyticket · 06/12/2021 19:09

Yes, absolutely! We got married 2 days before restrictions lifted in July. I understand the worry and the guilt op. Good luck!

BigRedDuck · 06/12/2021 19:09

Yes please, what's for dinner Grin

KezzabellaB · 06/12/2021 19:09

Definitely!

Hereforthelaughs2020 · 06/12/2021 19:13

I would! I just went to a wedding of similar size on Saturday and had a great time! Congratulations and have a great day! X

HotChoc10 · 06/12/2021 19:14

I definitely would - love a wedding. And would think it extremely rude if anyone didn't let you know at all before not turning up! Congratulations OP, hope you have a great day.

User310 · 06/12/2021 19:15

Would t even think twice, yes I’d come. I would feel happier at the request of everybody doing a LFT but that’s more for peace of mind, wouldn’t change my mind if you hadn’t asked.

Have a lovely wedding

TwinklyBranch · 06/12/2021 19:18

I'd still come but would be staying off the dance floor.

KateInHappyland · 06/12/2021 19:21

Of course I would. Smile

Disfordarkchocolate · 06/12/2021 19:21

I'd do a LFT on the morning and enjoy the day.

Congratulations. I love all weddings as long as don't have to stay late.

Pinkchocolate · 06/12/2021 19:21

I would. I recently went to a wedding with twice the amount of people, there were a few cancellations but otherwise it was normal. We had a great time and no one I know of has had Covid since.

LethargicActress · 06/12/2021 19:24

I would, no hesitation.

LuluBlakey1 · 06/12/2021 19:24

No- but nothing to do with testing, I just avoid weddings.

Dalalalada · 06/12/2021 19:27

Id be there 👌💯