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To be bothered by a delivery driver smoking in their van?

173 replies

PurpleCurtain · 01/12/2021 15:34

Presume it's the cold and miserable weather but twice in a couple of days I've seen a delivery driver parked round the corner in company van having a smoke with parcels on the dashboard, no windows open. Then delivers said parcels to ours and neighbour's houses - mostly gifts for the babies and children in the family so things we definitely don't want smelling of smoke. Two different drivers. Is it legal for them to do so? Is it unreasonable for us to complain?

OP posts:
ImprobablePuffin · 01/12/2021 21:34

OP in the nicest way, this is not a normal level of worry/concern.

As was said on your other threads you should really seek some help instead of making more and more threads.

CheeseMmmm · 01/12/2021 21:34

Air pollution (causes on link vehicles not power stations or similar). This is on govt page
www.gov.uk/government/news/public-health-england-publishes-air-pollution-evidence-review
'Public Health England (PHE) has today, Monday 11 March 2019, published a review of evidence on how to improve air quality in the United Kingdom.

The review informs local and national government on actions to improve outdoor air quality and health.

Air pollution is the biggest environmental threat to health in the UK, with between 28,000 and 36,000 deaths a year attributed to long-term exposure. There is strong evidence that air pollution causes the development of coronary heart disease, stroke, respiratory disease and lung cancer, and exacerbates asthma.'

CheeseMmmm · 01/12/2021 21:36

Sorry didn't catch up see OP might have anxiety.

Shit sorry. Really would not have said that if realised.

Comedycook · 01/12/2021 21:36

Oh gosh, I've just seen your other threads. Please get some help for your anxiety

Ericaequites · 01/12/2021 21:37

My siblings and I, as well as much of Gen X, sat in parents’ or grandparents’ laps as they smoked when we were young children. You are way too precious for your own good.

ufucoffee · 01/12/2021 21:40

OP, after you've got the driver sacked you need to stop ordering online. Or buying anything. Items in shops may have had someone smoking near them whilst in transit or in factories etc. Items from online retailers may be the same. Become self sufficient immediately. It's the only way to become free from the threat of tiny weeny little particles of fag smoke.

ufucoffee · 01/12/2021 21:47

@VanillaIce1

He's probably touched his knob and then your parcel op when he's been having a quick piss up the side of said van too 😂.
GrinGrinGrinGrin
littlemissmagic · 01/12/2021 21:48

There is a delivery driver round here that delivers in his own smoky car so no cab to sit in. Parcels always stink of smoke when they arrive - it really isn't pleasant. I always bin the packaging as quickly as possible.
I've never complained but if there was no packaging I might consider it.

Forgothowmuchlhatehomeschoolin · 01/12/2021 21:57

@MissDollyMix

I hate smoking and smoking associated smells but YABVU! Leave the poor guy alone and chuck away the packaging after your parcels arrive.
This with bells on
Whammyyammy · 01/12/2021 22:03

OP you must live such an exhilarating life......

flimflammingo · 01/12/2021 22:17

Hi OP. Took a quick look back and a lot of of your previous posts seem to be about cleanliness and germs. So maybe you are hyperfocused on contaminants in a way that is unusual, and possibly not entirely helpful to you? I don't think the driver's smoking will affect the contents of your parcels in any way so don't worry.

Luredbyapomegranate · 01/12/2021 22:27

Jesus Christ, have you seriously got nothing better to do with your day than make a delivery driver’s life more miserable??

Air them or unwrap them.

MajesticallyAwkward · 01/12/2021 22:29

I read an article recently saying that delivery drivers are so pushed to his targets they don't have time to stop for toilet breaks so piss in bottles in their vehicle. I'd be more concerned about spills than the odd ciggy 🤷🏼‍♀️

Seriously though, they are just trying to earn a living in a generally shitty job. Don't be a dick to your delivery drivers.

JudgeJ · 01/12/2021 22:35

@WomanWithDiamondEarring

I hope he doesn't have the temerity to fart near your parcels. Get a life!
Or breathe on them in these covid days.
Almostmenopausal · 01/12/2021 22:58

@WorraLiberty

Christ on a fucking cracker, seriously? 🙄
GrinGrinGrinGrin This really made me giggle!!!
Constellationstation · 01/12/2021 22:59

@BullshitDetectionService

Unfortunately no packaging inside the box on a couple of the things (teething toys, soft toys, bamboo plates) but I guess we can wipe them down and air them before we wrap them.

beep

😂😂😂
Almostmenopausal · 01/12/2021 23:02

@TheLovelinessOfBaublyDemons 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣💃

CheeseMmmm · 02/12/2021 00:18

Oh lol missed that!

Teething toys with no packaging? And you're worried about smoke particles?

Ummmm...

Brieandcamembert · 02/12/2021 04:35

I'm surprised how many people think you are unreasonable. I've just ordered an expensive dress. I would be furious if it arrived smelling of smoke. It's a vile think to do around other people's things. Report it.

Catlover77 · 02/12/2021 05:11

the comments on here are bonkers. Who would accept a parcel stinking of cigarette smoke? I certainly wouldn’t

ufucoffee · 02/12/2021 05:18

@Brieandcamembert

I'm surprised how many people think you are unreasonable. I've just ordered an expensive dress. I would be furious if it arrived smelling of smoke. It's a vile think to do around other people's things. Report it.
Your dress wouldn't arrive smelling of smoke
gofg · 02/12/2021 05:28

Oh for goodness sake ......

Let it go OP.

SimpsonsXmasBoogie · 02/12/2021 05:34

There probably is some sort of rule about this, somewhere, but I think it would be a bit much to take any action here. Your packages have been in contact with all manner of gross things before the get to the delivery driver.

StarlightLady · 02/12/2021 06:04

As a non smoker who does not allow smoking in the house l really think this is going over the top.

Offmyfence · 02/12/2021 06:22

Where will your anxiety over a non event end? YABU!