These threads are really awful
Irl many women looking for info for first baby read all this stuff and can have a really negative effect. Gives the idea that it's a thing with a high risk of drawing pointed disapproval, glares, comments, hostility. Etc.
It's a stressful enough thing for many in the first place as it's virtually still not common. A thing that all first time mothers have to get the hang of.
Reading this sort of stuff. Is the intention from the women who talk about performances, flopping breasts, no need for anyone to see anything etc etc. To make women reading who are Pg think twice?
Just out of interest.
I read threads like this before DD1 and they meant I avoided doing a lot of stuff.
To anyone reading. With dd2 I was more relaxed and I got zero negative. Not even a hint of anything.
I did get a few smiles though!
And the whole discreet thing. My friends with smaller boobs could. With big breasts it's a different ball game.
And yeah yeah come and say whatever this is for women reading who are.. sounds more trouble than it's worth.
DD2 is 12 now so will be hard to hit a nerve but I'm sure some will try!
And no it wouldn't have been equality for DH to get his cock out and have a wank next to me while I fed DD. That's to the poster who seems over invested with arguing for more dicks on show. (As if girls and women don't get shown enough already🙄).