Shes the only one DS2 will settle with apart from me and even then he will spend the past part of 30 minutes sobbing 'mama'
They are only 18 months and 3 years old and I cannot relax when I cant see them, we had DS2s christening about 3 weeks agao and from the second we arrived at the party hall I wanted to leave, it was crowded and dark with disco lights and i spent the whole night running after them.
I cant do that on my wedding day, especially not in the dress I have,
I know you will say 'can't someone just keep an eye on them at the party for you'
but several people said that at the christening then Id turn round to find them hiding alone near thew toilets - or the person would go to the bar and not be watching them ect.
At theur ages i cant keep them in a buggy all night.
I know its her sons wedding but in all truthfullness shes not taken that much interest and this would be the best and nicest thing she could do for us on the day.
Cant hire a sitter as DS2 is sooo clingy and would just scream for me and DS1 hates unfamiliarity.