DP and I live 100 miles apart. Last night on the phone, he asked me to text him today.
I posted a photo for my friend's birthday at 9am, he then text me calling me a dick head for not texting him and telling me to go away when I replied.
He then said he didn't want to speak to me and I said "ok, don't expect me to reply when you've finished having a tantrum".
He said that he was doing the healthy thing and that I was punishing him for not wanting to talk either. I said, no, I wasn't punishing him, I just wasn't marching to the beat of his drum.
He has now said "I think I'll go for the unhealthy route in future, laugh at what you say and tell you to fuck off". This is what he does a lot during arguments, which he knows is a problem and upsets me.
He has said I am being unreasonable and nasty.
AIBU?!