[quote youvegottenminuteslynn]@chaosrabbitland
That's ok, I thought it sounded like your thinking on this is so outside the 'norm' (for want of a better word) that there was more to it than trolling or anything.
If you really would save a pet rabbit before a human child, for example your DD's friend / schoolmate then I mean this in the kindest way possible, there is no benefit in you sharing that belief with people as it's truly abhorrent to almost everyone and also quite upsetting to hear.
Particularly when children are dying in such inhumane, unthinkably terrifying ways in Afghanistan as we speak.
Saying you would prioritise your own rabbits life over one of those poor children is deeply shocking and, as you have reflected on yourself, shows a lack of empathy that is both shocking and disturbing to most people.
I hope that makes sense and doesn't sound like I'm asking for an argument. It sounds like you perhaps aren't neuro typical (not armchair diagnosing, just supposition based on your last comment) so you don't understand how disturbing a thing that is to think / feel. [/quote]
sadly i think your right , i have been in psychiatric care many times as a teen , then again in my twenties , i dont know what was ever put into my notes , what makes me feel like this about animals , what my trigger is for them , but not people , i dont know , when my psychaiatrist wanted me to commit to a year in the hospital as voluntary , i declined it , my good friend said it was a bad idea , so i stopped seeing the psychatrist , it was nhs , and i just got on with my life , sometimes i wonder if i had done this thing , would i be different somehow ? , what would i have learned about myself ? . i just will never ever know , i just carry on with my life as best i can . i am how i am , its normal to me , but your right , its evidently not normal to other which i dont understand because i dont have that empaty to other people the way most do , i like to help ,be kind , considerate , have good manners , but not on any deeper level than that