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To think this has to be a hoax?

268 replies

Sashimimimi · 16/08/2021 13:06

British student went to Afghanistan on holiday Hmm Is now trapped in a safe house and has ‘accepted death’. He’s been live blogging about his situation on 4chan. Incel types hailing him as a legend.

AIBU to think this is has to be a windup?

www.google.co.uk/amp/s/www.mirror.co.uk/news/uk-news/brit-student-22-stuck-afghanistan-24768024.amp

OP posts:
MolyHolyGuacamole · 16/08/2021 17:16

His arrogance is astounding. Going to visit a place for a bit of wild fun when for many, especially women, it's a place to live in fear, is disgusting. Their suffering is not your entertainment. Privilege at its finest.

And for those shouting 'victim blaming', did you feel the same way for the influencer who went around licking toilets when covid first kicked off abs ended up hospitalised? Because I shed no tears over it.

I don't know how anyone could look at these pictures of pure desperation as people try to flee and defend this idiot.

To think this has to be a hoax?
AbsolutelyPatsy · 16/08/2021 17:18

he is not yet 22

saraclara · 16/08/2021 17:19

He sounds an obnoxious idiot.

But there's quite some ignorance about other countries on here. In peacetime I'd go to Afghanistan like a shot. China is a perfectly safe and fascinating country to visit for culture and natural wonders, Ethiopia is mainstream for an explorer holiday, and Iran is hands down the most amazing country I've ever been to, with the most lovely and hospitable people I've ever come across.

So yes, people go to these countries for perfectly good reasons. Though this guy doesn't seem to have been one of them.

EastWestWhosBest · 16/08/2021 17:20

@AbsolutelyPatsy

a relative went on a package tour to Ethiopia
I know a number of people who have been to Ethiopia. That’s completely different.
CovidCorvid · 16/08/2021 17:38

I can believe it….my parents used to do shit like this. They’ve been to Afghanistan, Uzbekistan, Syria, Iraq, Iran

Nachthex · 16/08/2021 17:43

He claimed: "My tour guide is currently fearing for his family and his only crime is going the extra mile and saving my life, I can never repay him and that saddens me." (C&P from The Mirror link in OP's first post).

How obnoxious is that, if true? He thinks a family could be harmed at best or even slaughtered at worst and he's 'saddened'. Little shit.

AbsolutelyPatsy · 16/08/2021 17:44

he is 21, does that not change your mind.
it is so easy, just a click of the mouse, to book flights

IHateCoronavirus · 16/08/2021 17:48

@Nachthex

He claimed: "My tour guide is currently fearing for his family and his only crime is going the extra mile and saving my life, I can never repay him and that saddens me." (C&P from The Mirror link in OP's first post).

How obnoxious is that, if true? He thinks a family could be harmed at best or even slaughtered at worst and he's 'saddened'. Little shit.

This really got to me too. He has such an overinflated sense of worth. It speaks volumes about the worth of the “tour guide” though, what a genuinely brave man accepting such risk for the sake of another. Perhaps he could say thank you by giving up his seat for the guy! Hmm
LetsGoFlyAKiteee · 16/08/2021 17:48

I may have just prevented a rapeugee [sic] from entering my country. Feels pretty good

He sounds a delight...

IHateCoronavirus · 16/08/2021 17:52

@AbsolutelyPatsy

he is 21, does that not change your mind. it is so easy, just a click of the mouse, to book flights
And so easy to post comments insinuating asylum seekers rape?

He could be 19 and I’d still think he was a vile waste of space spouting shite like that.

Andante57 · 16/08/2021 17:52

Presumably he thinks he’ll make money out of this as apart from the idiocy of going to Afghanistan, those awful comments he’s tweeted will make him unemployable.
Nobody will want to be associated with him now.

Fluffycloudland77 · 16/08/2021 17:57

Afghanistan wasn’t safe to go to 40 years ago never mind now.

Shallwegoforawalk · 16/08/2021 18:00

Do we say this about murdered solo female travellers? That they’re idiots for being female and travelling alone to....well anywhere....and end up raped and dead on a beach? Or at a hotel?

Really?? @PlanDeRaccordement really? What an utterly ridiculous and insulting comparison. I've seen you post some stupid stuff on this site but that takes the biscuit. How can you possibly put him, a reckless thrill seeker, in the same category as normal. female travellers. You are absurd.

CovidCorvid · 16/08/2021 18:00

So according to students at Loughborough who know him he’s a racist, homophobic, right wing wanker. After seeing his refugee joke I can believe it. Shame he’s taken a space on a plane above a translator…..who will now probably be killed.

Stealbee · 16/08/2021 18:11

@PlanDeRaccordement

Lots of victim blaming here. Do we say this about murdered solo female travellers? That they’re idiots for being female and travelling alone to....well anywhere....and end up raped and dead on a beach? Or at a hotel?
Oh fuck off, it's not the same thing, not even in the same stratosphere- you're disgusting.
Sashimimimi · 16/08/2021 18:18

he is 21, does that not change your mind.

Yeah he’s a grown man of 21. An adult 🙄

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CovidCorvid · 16/08/2021 18:28

All,flights out of Afghanistan now suspended so not sure if he’s actually made it out yet.

Againstmachine · 16/08/2021 18:35

he is 21, does that not change your mind.

Nope he's a prick, I dont want him to die but I don't care if he does, he is old enough to make informed decisions about life.

Qwerty789 · 16/08/2021 18:51

@AbsolutelyPatsy

he is 21, does that not change your mind. it is so easy, just a click of the mouse, to book flights
No it isn't...he had to apply for a bloody visa!!
alexdgr8 · 16/08/2021 18:51

what is 4chan ?

CuriousaboutSamphire · 16/08/2021 18:53

@alexdgr8

what is 4chan ?
A sort of legal darknet for anonymous, untraceable posting of bile - usually!
FrangipaniDeLaSqueegeeMop · 16/08/2021 18:57

I have very little sympathy for someone who partakes in 'dark tourism'. Even less sympathy when it's a person who frequents 4chan.

FrangipaniDeLaSqueegeeMop · 16/08/2021 18:58

4chan is a stomping ground for misogynists and men who want to harm women. Members are usually very fast it's as well, makes me wonder what he thinks he'd get from being in Afghanistan

FrangipaniDeLaSqueegeeMop · 16/08/2021 19:04

@CovidCorvid

So according to students at Loughborough who know him he’s a racist, homophobic, right wing wanker. After seeing his refugee joke I can believe it. Shame he’s taken a space on a plane above a translator…..who will now probably be killed.
Has his space on a plane been confirmed?
JRKismyhero · 16/08/2021 19:06

I have visited Chernobyl and it was very safe - I definitely wouldn't have had the balls to go to Afghanistan though!