What was your nicest U.K. non warm holiday? Out of interest
Before kids, the brecon beacons in October. We had a cottage with a view, woodburner, fancy bath, and in walking distance to a decent pub with a fire. We went on lots of dramatic walks in the rain, and nearly got lost in the fog one day! Then either went back to the pub or the cottage to warm up and eat good food.
With kids, Northumberland in November. Freezing cold, beautiful countryside and coastline, empty beaches for the kids to run around, and nice dark evenings to cuddle up by the fire together. The clouds cleared one night and we went stargazing.
I prefer non-summer holidays. You can plan for rain/cold, there's less crowds, you can walk further without melting in the heat, and fish and chips taste better when they're warming you up.
I bloody hate rain when I'm not on holiday though. The nursery run is shit in the rain, commuting is shit in the rain, and I'm stuck in a poky flat in the city. Rain on holiday doesn't bother me at all and I quite enjoy it just because I'm on holiday and it's fun and it forces you to do things you might not normally do.