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Would you find this rude? Colleague leaving?

321 replies

TomForddr · 14/07/2021 16:25

If they said “its a pleasure to announce I’m leaving”

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StarryStarrySocks · 14/07/2021 16:37

Could be intentionally funny or it could just be someone getting their words confused. For example you could say "I'm delighted to announce that I've got a new job" which would be totally fine, so maybe the person got mixed up or made a few changes to what they'd originally put and ended up pleased to announce their departure.

C152 · 14/07/2021 16:41

No, that would make me laugh out loud!

trilbydoll · 14/07/2021 16:42

One of my previous colleagues said she had enjoyed working with some of us Grin still cracks me up 15 years later

RatherBeRiding · 14/07/2021 16:43

Why is it rude? Presumably they wouldn't be leaving if they wanted to stay so I guess they are happy they are leaving.

Bluesheep8 · 14/07/2021 16:44

Who do you think it's being rude to, exactly? They are glad they are leaving, it's as simple as that.

ParsleyDill · 14/07/2021 16:44

I think I said similar to my line manager at one particularly toxic workplace when I handed in my notice. Sotto voce, he said 'Lucky you' and then said, 'OK, from what I remember the paperwork is all my problem!'

ddl1 · 14/07/2021 16:45

No, I'd find it funny. Depends on the circumstances, of course.

NumberTheory · 14/07/2021 16:47

I’d probably find it funny, possibly snide, depending on context.

BlueCupOrangeCup · 14/07/2021 16:47

I don't find it rude.

They feel the time has come to a natural end at their current place and they are looking forward to their new job...[so it's a pleasure to announce that they are leaving]

I'd have to look very very hard to find something to be offended about. Just congratulate them...?

TiddyAndFletch · 14/07/2021 16:53

Well, no one voluntarily leaves a job they love, so it should be self-evident they'll be glad to be going.

onlyhereforthecake · 14/07/2021 16:53

I'd find it funny - especially if they mean it.

I could understand if their newly-recruited replacement was less amused 😂

TotorosCatBus · 14/07/2021 16:55

I'd find it funny even if I was the only other employee Wink

newnortherner111 · 14/07/2021 16:58

If they were someone I did not get on with well, or they were not very good at their job, I'd be tempted to reply 'my pleasure to hear that'.

Cutex507 · 14/07/2021 16:59

I'm guessing you thought they were your friend?

No one had ever been surprised I was leaving a job. That's the way I like it.

LtDansleg · 14/07/2021 17:00

I’d assume it was meant tongue in cheek

Doublestar · 14/07/2021 17:01

I take it you don't like this colleague?

onlyhereforthecake · 14/07/2021 17:01

TomForddr

why? have you been tempted to say it but didn't dare? Grin

Pandora64 · 14/07/2021 17:01

I’d crack up if I heard that.

I once wrote a letter of resignation to a toxic boss explaining that I was leaving to become a nun, having learnt so much from working with him about the virtues of poverty, patience, and absolute obedience to the whims of a capricious, cruel and unknowable God.

Never sent it. But it made me feel better.

TomForddr · 14/07/2021 17:07

I’m surprised so many find it “funny” and “brilliant”

It’s hardly the amazing words of a great comic.

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MaMelon · 14/07/2021 17:09

It’s hardly the amazing words of a great comic

Literally no-one has said it was. Ok then, give us the context and explain why you asked if we thought it rude.

HopeHappy · 14/07/2021 17:10

I think it would depend on the working environment. As an employer who tries to be good, fair and reasonable to all my employees, I'd be pretty pissed off/hurt if someone said that as it comes across as a bit of a "I can't wait to get out of this shit hole".

I can't quite get my head around thinking it's as "hilarious" as some PPs think - sorry! (I do have a sense of humour - honest!)

Bargebill19 · 14/07/2021 17:10

Me thinks @TomForddr was the employer.

SometimesIFeedTheSparrows · 14/07/2021 17:10

Woman in our (fairly awful) office left to have a baby. Colleague wrote "great escape plan - will try to follow" in her card.

He was getting on for sixty and it was the best thing I have ever seen written in a leaving card Grin

Mpsister · 14/07/2021 17:10

I like the honesty

ahoyshipmates · 14/07/2021 17:11

I did something similar when I left a job once. Too long ago to remember what I said exactly though. Grin