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To think bangers and mash implies veg too?

506 replies

Crowsaregreat · 12/07/2021 14:00

My kids love sausage and mash. I always do it with at least one type of veg, preferably two. Peas, carrots, broccoli sort of thing.

We stayed with PIL a while ago and MIL did sausage and mash that was exactly that - sausage, mash, gravy. Then recently my DM did the same.

It won't do DC any harm but I thought it was odd. I don't think I'd ever give DC just meat + potato for dinner unless it was a desperate situation. AIBU to think it's weird to have a dinner with no veg?

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Gwenhwyfar · 12/07/2021 20:17

"Fish and chips needs mushy peas surely?"

Ideally, yes, they add some moistness, but the portions are so big I can't have all three things so either fish and chips or fish and peas or chips and peas.

Gwenhwyfar · 12/07/2021 20:19

" If I say we're having toad in the hole, fish pie, shepherds pie, moussaka, lasagne etc they all come with veg or salad. Never just served on their own. Just because you don't say the veg it would always be assumed here."

All of those things are meals in themselves.

ifigoup · 12/07/2021 20:27

Most curry has veg cooked into it, though, doesn’t it? It’s often tomato and onion and ginger and garlic cooked down in a paste with spices.

Soontobe60 · 12/07/2021 20:28

Either with peas and gravy or baked beans (no gravy)

lynsey91 · 12/07/2021 20:43

@Essentialironingwater

YANBU, I think all these people banging on about meat curry alone or fish and chips are bonkers too. Would be surprised if I ordered fish and chips in a pub and it came without peas, spag bol we have salad, we eat veggie curries - it's not a meal without a vegetable. Fish and chips without veg by the sea in paper, maybe, but I've never had a veg-less meal in someone's home.
You eat veggie curries but many people don't.

My sister and her DH are pretty healthy eaters but if they go out for a curry they both have a chicken or lamb curry with rice and bread. They don't have any side dishes.

I know they still have some veg in (at least onion) but really not a lot

Ponoka7 · 12/07/2021 20:54

@Boood I was going to wade in until you mentioned caggage. I like greens with my sausage and mash, onion gravy, spinach and cabbage. My Irish DH liked cabbage with any pork products. Green veg comes into season when parts of the country is still cold, especially if working outside, October to April. I like the root vegetables as part of the mash.

I wouldn't have a curry without mushrooms, spinach, peppers, onion.

Frownette · 12/07/2021 21:03

YANBU. We had bangers and mash tonight (Richmond vege sausages) with carrots and peas

PickAChew · 12/07/2021 21:13

@Zwellers

Clues in the name. You don't have to includevegetables with everything. I wouldn't expect vegetables with my fish and chips or chicken curry and rice either.
I would expect some vegetables to be involved in the making of said chicken curry and would have it with a Dal or a simple vegetable dish like a rainbow chard sabzi or butternut squash with mint and cumin.

I will admit to fish and chips being vegetable free, unless you count the potatoes and ketchup. Mushy peas do horrible things to me.

SchadenfreudePersonified · 12/07/2021 21:16

@Deadringer

I never do veg with bangers and mash, i don't like gravy with it either.
DON'T LIKE GRAVY?!?!?!?!?!?

Blimey - I'd drink it as a beverage.

Deadringer · 12/07/2021 21:19

I love gravy with a roast, but not with lovely, creamy, buttery mash.

SchadenfreudePersonified · 12/07/2021 21:20

@IHaveBrilloHair

I'd never dream of eating peas, surely everyone knows they're just bags of sugar.
I want them even more now!
SchadenfreudePersonified · 12/07/2021 21:27

we usually have peas and sweet corn not touching each other but that is another thread

I have found my people. Grin

SchadenfreudePersonified · 12/07/2021 21:30

@Spanielstail

* I wouldn't expect vegetables with my fish and chips or chicken curry and rice either.*

If I make fish and chips at home o do peas, broccoli and kale with it.

If I make a chicken curry if would have mushrooms, peppers, onions, usually cauliflower or sweet potato as well.

You are supposed to eat 7 fruit and vegetables a day.

KALE!

No human being eats kale with anything, surely?

It's cattle food. Like parsnips.

KirstenBlest · 12/07/2021 21:33

I eat kale. I remember when it was grown as cattle food only.

I eat the young soft leaves not those nasty bags of chopped old leaves.

I usually have them with lots of other mainly leafy vegetables

Parsnips - hmm, not keen.

SchadenfreudePersonified · 12/07/2021 21:34

Fish & Chips? Peas go fine
Pie and chips or mash? Peas
Sausage and mash? Peas
Family member or guest is very picky? There's a good chance they will eat peas.

I would respectfully suggest that sweetcorn is equally versatile in all of the above situations, NotCis

HarebrightCedarmoon · 12/07/2021 21:34

Kale is lovely if you freeze it and crush it a bit, can chuck it into anything straight from frozen, really useful to have in.

SchadenfreudePersonified · 12/07/2021 21:36

@KirstenBlest

I eat kale. I remember when it was grown as cattle food only.

I eat the young soft leaves not those nasty bags of chopped old leaves.

I usually have them with lots of other mainly leafy vegetables

Parsnips - hmm, not keen.

I bought a very expensive bag of "kalettes"* from Sainsbury to try, to see if the baby kale was any more acceptable to my tastebuds than the grown-up kale.

It wasn't.

*It was a bag full of sprout-sized kale shoots. Waste of two quid!

MrsKoala · 12/07/2021 21:37

@Gwenhwyfar

" If I say we're having toad in the hole, fish pie, shepherds pie, moussaka, lasagne etc they all come with veg or salad. Never just served on their own. Just because you don't say the veg it would always be assumed here."

All of those things are meals in themselves.

So you don’t serve any veg on the side of a cottage pie or toad in the hole? I don’t think I could eat them without something green. If I said I was doing toad in the hole and then just served that with nothing else I’d get Confused faces.
FlumpyPoodle · 12/07/2021 21:37

Kale has had an PR makeover in the past 10 years.

FlumpyPoodle · 12/07/2021 21:37

Used to be hamster food.

Imissmoominmama · 12/07/2021 21:38

Roast kale leaves with a little bit of oil for about 4/5 minutes- they’re delicious!

MrsKoala · 12/07/2021 21:43

I love roast kale with olive oil, salt and fresh rosemary. It goes all crispy.

I don’t think of sweet corn as a grown up veg, it’s so sweet and something I’d mostly give to kids as a gateway veg.

PurpleDaisies · 12/07/2021 21:51

Kale is great in a curry. Also used in place of spinach in most things you’d put spinach in. Kale and ricotta cannelloni is a favourite here. I only really discovered I liked it when we kept getting it in the veg box.

AlfiesMama85 · 12/07/2021 21:54

Talk about first world problems! Wish this was all your had to be worried about right now! 🙄

Coffeemakesmehappy · 12/07/2021 22:10

I love sausages and mash! Kale in the mash (so colcannon really) and caramelised onions added to the gravy. I don’t add any extra sides of veg - have done in the past (carrots, peas or runner beans etc) and have found I didn’t enjoy it as much.