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AIBU to ignore the notification?

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Doifollowrule · 04/07/2021 17:39

This morning I woke to find a notification on the NHS app telling me I'd been in contact with someone with Covid and need to isolate for 8 days. The only place that can have come from is a farm cafe on Thursday, out for lunch with DH, who does not have the app so has not been told to isolate so isn't going to. He's manager of a large pharmacy and they're on skeleton staff already and have been encouraged to delete app by big bosses. I'm a childminder so will be letting down parents if I close. I've had a pcr test this morning and I'm double vaccinated. The app says to isolate even if its negative as I could still develop covid. But seriously, what's the point of having had 2 vaccines if I'm still going to have to isolate?! But I am usually a stickler for the rules and worry about getting "caught." What do I do?

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Youdiditanyway · 04/07/2021 22:02

Ignore it but also delete the app because my Mum ignored one of these notifications once to go help my brother who was in immediate danger and they called her up to say she should be isolating. They’d tracked her through the app. So yeah, ignore but get rid of the app.

iwouldlikearefundonmybody · 04/07/2021 22:04

I would get a test to be on the safe side.

Talkwhilstyouwalk · 04/07/2021 22:06

@Mpsister

Yes, ignore it and put other people at risk. Fabulous idea 😡
Not really.

Most vulnerable and sensible people should have been vaccinated, hence why death rates are currently so low.

It's all going to change after 19th anyway I think.

Timeisavirtue · 04/07/2021 22:09

It tracks you too. My brothers girlfriend had it and the only place she’d been was on the bus to and from work. The other days she drove with dbro... she said on that day on the bus she was the only person downstairs and only a few upstairs. So she got a message to isolate because some one who was more than 2 m away was on her bus.

Theboywiththearabstrap · 04/07/2021 22:09

I’d be gutted if my pharmacist knew they should be isolating and chose not to - same with childminder. You have been contacted for a reason.

chaosrabbitland · 04/07/2021 22:12

@kazillionaire

Just isolate like thousands of others have to, if you were my childminder I would go berserk if you put my child at risk, and would be cancelling you asap. You are not special, nobody likes isolating but then if you have no morals and a grand to throw away then crack on, and hope to god that you don't infect anyone while you are being selfish
but you would never know would you? thats the whole point of the stupid app , its only guidence you can ignore it . so op would only be getting fined a grand if contacted by trace and track and then ignored it .
UnluckyMe · 04/07/2021 22:14

@Mrstamborineman

I’m shocked almost everyone us told you to ignore and delete. Jesus Mary and Joseph instead of asking mn ask the parents of the children you might infect with covid. !
100% agree.

Let's spin this round. If YOUR child minder was asked to isolate and they didn't, would YOU want them looking after YOUR child, putting them and you at risk?

Don't be selfish, just follow the guidance. Why download the track and trace app if you had no intention to follow through with it if they contacted you?

Doodlebug71 · 04/07/2021 22:16

"it's only guidance" say people who would complain if it was law. If you are told to isolate, you isolate.

Guidance is what LAs have to follow with SEN kids. They refuse, because "it's not law, just guidance." So many of you putting yourselves into that same morally bankrupt box.

Womendohavevaginasnick · 04/07/2021 22:16

I'd be pretty annoyed if you gave my kids covid when you had fair warning to isolate

vinoandbrie · 04/07/2021 22:18

I’ve never had the app.

Delete it and ignore the notification!

silverbubbles · 04/07/2021 22:19

You do not HAVE to isolate at all. This app is advisory. it is not the law that you have to isolate. You are now in a position to evaluate what risk you have put your self in.

I was listening to exactly a report about this yesterday on the radio. Look into it. it is not a legal requirement for you to isolate from this alert.

00100001 · 04/07/2021 22:21

@RainbowANDThunder

With everyone telling the OP to ignore No wonder the virus is still rapidly spreading Christ!!!!

I wonder how many people have ignored the need to isolate and actually killed someone !

But hay, as long as your ok, and you can still go out, carry on as normal huh!

🙄

Every single time you drive your car, your putting your life, you passengers life and other road users and pedestrians life at risk.

Yet you carry on driving...

00100001 · 04/07/2021 22:22

@Womendohavevaginasnick

I'd be pretty annoyed if you gave my kids covid when you had fair warning to isolate
How would you know they caught it from the childminder?
osbertthesyrianhamster · 04/07/2021 22:23

Also your DH will have had to provide his details in writing surely not, so he may still get a call soon?

You can invent those.

Bythemillpond · 04/07/2021 22:26

nanbread

Also your DH will have had to provide his details in writing surely not, so he may still get a call soon

I have never been asked for my details and I don’t have the app as my phone is too old/not updated enough so it won’t go on

SofiaMichelle · 04/07/2021 22:32

This thread's hilarious.

Dozens saying 'just' ignore and delete the app.

Then there's other threads with people wailing about how many Covid cases and deaths the UK's had and why's it worse than other countries.

Obviously that's all someone else's fault. 🤣

Talkwhilstyouwalk · 04/07/2021 22:34

@Bythemillpond

nanbread

Also your DH will have had to provide his details in writing surely not, so he may still get a call soon

I have never been asked for my details and I don’t have the app as my phone is too old/not updated enough so it won’t go on

Don't feel you have to justify not having the app here Wink
Womendohavevaginasnick · 04/07/2021 22:53

@00100001

Ahhh.
Your one of those.
Selfish.
See you on Tuesday.

RedToothBrush · 04/07/2021 22:55

Why anyone got the app in the first place is beyond me.

From the very beginning there were warnings that the technology was bollocks and in practice would just ping everyone to death and cripple the country if everyone used it without question.

Thats precisely why it was never made compulsory to use and certain respected key worker professions were advised not to use the app because it was bollocks.

I honestly think anyone who used it blindly without first looking at whether it was actually useful was extremely foolish and should learn critical thinking.

At best it lead to unnecessary staff shortage and people needlessly isolating. At worst it lulled cautious and potentially more vulnerable people into a false sense of security and caused them to engage in behaviour they wouldn't have without the app giving them something of a 'security blanket' - and not offered the protection that people think it does.

Utterly bonkers.

This isn't about being anti-lockdown or anti-restriction. Its recognising that the app basically isn't fit for purpose and was recognised by techies, various respected organisation and indeed government itself that it wasn't fit for purpose BUT because the government had spent a shedload of money on it, they weren't prepared to back down and admit that they'd spent it all on a massive white elephant. Not just any white elephant, but one which may even have been dangerous.

It was just easier to pretend to the public it was worthwhile despite all the evidence to the contrary and still encourage them to use it.

Its a scandal on a lot of levels.

When the 'delete the app' crowd include senior NHS managers involved in critical emergency covid planning and promotion of public health and safety, you'd think that it would cause those who think the app is a good idea to stop and think. But no.

shrugs

MyrrAgain · 04/07/2021 22:59

And more evidence why people should ISOLATE - clearly you can't be certain where you might have gained a "ping" from - people saying "oh i only went to the shop for 5 minutes" then remembering oh yeah it's someone from work.... also the app doesn't ping you for no reason - you need prolonged contact with someone who has then gone on to test positive.

Why does the app sometimes tell you to only isolate for less than 10 days and not the full 10? well maybe it's cause the person you had contact with didn't test positive until many days later, and was NOT positive at the time you were near them, but due to the incubation period you still need to isolate because they were infectious at the time.

You can see how many positive contacts you've been in contact with in the exposure settings. Mine has ranged from 0 - 13 during some peaks but does not tell you to isolate based only on this unless you have prolonged exposure. That's just positive cases you've "walked past in the street" and it doesn't ping you for that.

stop making out it's all soooo superficial and let's all "delete the app". THIS is why we're all in extended lockdowns.

OP yes you should isolate!! FFS.

WaltzingTilda · 04/07/2021 23:02

I would isolate as told and delete app.

osbertthesyrianhamster · 04/07/2021 23:04

[quote Womendohavevaginasnick]@00100001

Ahhh.
Your one of those.
Selfish.
See you on Tuesday.[/quote]
😂

you're

And it's 'See You NEXT Tuesday'.

😂😂😂

Bythemillpond · 04/07/2021 23:06

Talkwhilstyouwalk

Tbh I didn’t know it was an app so I have taken loads of photos of the QRcode

I didn’t realise you had to down load an app

Thehop · 04/07/2021 23:06

I worked in a nursery until last week and our boss has told us to delete the app.

Ironfloor269 · 04/07/2021 23:09

Ignore it, carry on with your life and delete the app. Oh and get this thread deleted as well.

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