@TurquoiseLemur
I don't know if this is still the case but time was (I'm talking about the 60s, 70s) the wives of men hoping to become Conservative candidates were assessed for their suitability alongside their husbands. The party didn't want a politician's wife who wouldn't stick by her man, apparently. So "being suitable" was the same as "being compliant and loyal, come what may."
Didn't know about Mrs Cook No 1 and the toyboy. I do remember that RC was about to go on holiday with her and promptly called the holiday off (AND ended the marriage) when warned, when actually at the airport, that one of the tabloids was about to reveal his affair.
Really interesting! Makes sense that modesty, a strong sense of duty, emotional pliancy and a penchant for self-martyrdom would be highly desirable traits in a politicians wife. BJ's ex really put up with a great deal before finally conceding defeat. Carrie seems to not quite fit the traditional mould and has been publicly castigated for it.
Didn't know that about Robin Cook and the airport! Read up a bit. Apparently he announced the marriage was over to the press at Heathrow! Then he married his aide mere weeks after the divorce! Poor ex-wife didn't have time to catch her breath. He still went on to have a career.
It seems so many women support these men so they can make the best of themselves, only to be despised for it later.