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To be pissed off that even though every other thread in AIBU has a relevant topic it could go in, it only seems to be feminism-related threads that get moved?

226 replies

AngeloMysterioso · 06/06/2021 20:47

Looking at the first page of AIBU alone, I can see several threads that would more appropriately be posted in Relationships, Coronavirus, Education, Chat, Politics, etc etc.

People post all sorts of irrelevant non-AIBU shitin AIBU for traffic. Everyone knows this.

And yet it only seems to be feminism-related threads that attract a load of posters going “UGH there’s a feminism topic for this you know” and eventually the threads get put back in their place, just like those pesky feminists moved to the feminism topic, where only people who seek out feminism-based threads will see them.

Why is this? Why is it ok for people to post in AIBU about covid vaccines, or employment issues, or whether you live within walking distance of your kids school, but not to bring attention to current issues facing women that many may not be aware of?

OP posts:
EdgeOfACoin · 06/06/2021 21:20

@Lucifersladylove

Because the 800 threads about trans people are boring?
Mmm. Must be it.
EdgeOfACoin · 06/06/2021 21:21

On one welsh HR policy document? I’d say that’s pretty niche.

Oh, the one you couldn't find even though it was the first hit on Google?

NiceGerbil · 06/06/2021 21:22

This will get deleted as a TAAT won't it?

They get moved because people report them more because lots of women don't want to talk about feminist stuff on general threads.

It's always been that way and is why the FWR board was created in the first place! (Way before trans things were being discussed in general).

I also don't know the intent of that post. If the idea is to raise awareness or whatever why not one of the many pieces by someone is isn't Sarah vine!!!!

Pumperthepumper · 06/06/2021 21:22

@EdgeOfACoin

On one welsh HR policy document? I’d say that’s pretty niche.

Oh, the one you couldn't find even though it was the first hit on Google?

I found no fewer than four welsh government policy documents, all saying mother, women and breastfeeding. I couldn’t find the one specific document the poster meant because they had the wrong date on the post. And even then, it didn’t say chestfeeding like they claimed.

Try harder.

ArabellaScott · 06/06/2021 21:22

Oh did you only register the one Welsh policy document Pumped? I hadn't heard.

AngeloMysterioso · 06/06/2021 21:23

3 coronavirus threads on first page of AIBU when I looked just now, just from the titles. Could be more.

Exactly.

There’s a thread about shingles that belongs in General Health.

A thread about wanting children close together that belongs in Family Planning.

Several crappy DH threads that belong in Relationships.

A thread about University rankings that belongs in Education.

Etc etc ad infinitum.

None of them have been moved though... weird.

OP posts:
MilkTwoSugarsThanks · 06/06/2021 21:23

It still doesn’t answer the question of why feminism based threads always have to be dragged back to the FWR board when hundreds of other threads that have less than fuck all to do with AIBU are allowed to stay put.

My guess would be that FWR threads tend to dissolve very quickly in to shouting matches and name calling far quicker than others.

OP: AIBU?
Reply: YABU that's not been my experience of... yadda yadda
OP: Go and educate yourself and take a good look at your internalised misogyny. Fucking Handmaiden ... yadda yadda.

Pumperthepumper · 06/06/2021 21:24

@ArabellaScott

Oh did you only register the one Welsh policy document Pumped? I hadn't heard.
What?
AngeloMysterioso · 06/06/2021 21:24

@Lucifersladylove

Because the 800 threads about trans people are boring?
There are countless boring covid threads posted on AIBU every day. They don’t get moved.
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Pumperthepumper · 06/06/2021 21:25

@ArabellaScott

Oh did you only register the one Welsh policy document Pumped? I hadn't heard.
I’ve still got the screenshots, here you go.
To be pissed off that even though every other thread in AIBU has a relevant topic it could go in, it only seems to be feminism-related threads that get moved?
To be pissed off that even though every other thread in AIBU has a relevant topic it could go in, it only seems to be feminism-related threads that get moved?
NiceGerbil · 06/06/2021 21:26

Because they don't get reported OP!

It's as simple as that.

My pp tells you why it happens, and that it's always happened.

If you want to get covid threads moved then report them and see what happens.

I don't understand what you are hoping to achieve with this or the other thread.

AngeloMysterioso · 06/06/2021 21:26

This will get deleted as a TAAT won't it?

I haven’t made this about any one particular thread.

There are a few posters who are making it so, and I’d rather they didn’t, but it’s not something I can control.

OP posts:
AngeloMysterioso · 06/06/2021 21:26

If you want to get covid threads moved then report them and see what happens.

I have. Nothing happened.

I’d be grateful if other posters could avoid turning this into a TAAT.

OP posts:
NiceGerbil · 06/06/2021 21:27

And why the bickering over Welsh policy docs when there's

The reports about stonewall in other papers
Prisons
Sports
Etc etc etc etc etc etc etc

ArabellaScott · 06/06/2021 21:27

I do see some unpleasantness on this thread but it's coming from the people telling feminists to get back in their box

Pumperthepumper · 06/06/2021 21:28

@NiceGerbil

And why the bickering over Welsh policy docs when there's

The reports about stonewall in other papers
Prisons
Sports
Etc etc etc etc etc etc etc

Because that’s not what the Sarah Vine article was about. It was about the word ‘mothers’ being erased, which it isn’t, so Sarah Vine could flog a few papers.
MilkTwoSugarsThanks · 06/06/2021 21:28

There are countless boring covid threads posted on AIBU every day. They don’t get moved.

True, but those countless boring threads are made of many different subjects. The FWRs are only about trans issues at the moment.

AngeloMysterioso · 06/06/2021 21:28

Pumperthepumper well if you don’t know then I’d be grateful if you could leave it at that and stop derailing this thread and making it a TAAT with the rather obvious objective of getting it deleted or moved

OP posts:
EdgeOfACoin · 06/06/2021 21:29

I couldn’t find the one specific document the poster meant because they had the wrong date on the post

Try harder

Admittedly I didn't try very hard. I typed in 'Welsh maternity policy 29 April' and there it was!

I guess I could have tried harder but it worked for me.

I agree it didn't mention chestfeeding. Mentioned father but not mother.

AngeloMysterioso · 06/06/2021 21:30

COULD EVERYONE PLEASE TRY AND REFRAIN FROM TURNING THIS INTO A TAAT.

I’ve posted about feminism-related threads in general being moved from AIBU to FWR. Not one in particular.

OP posts:
EdgeOfACoin · 06/06/2021 21:30

@AngeloMysterioso

Pumperthepumper well if you don’t know then I’d be grateful if you could leave it at that and stop derailing this thread and making it a TAAT with the rather obvious objective of getting it deleted or moved
Sorry Angelo, I'm not helping with the derail!

I'll bow out now.

NiceGerbil · 06/06/2021 21:31

But if people don't agree that's up to them!

I have seen loads of threads about feminist issues on chat/ aibu in general that stay there.

Even a couple on this issue but only a couple.

What is the benefit in posting a thread saying woohoo Sarah vine (yes that's a good way to get people to listen to your arguments) and then when that goes start a sulky thread.

I mean is the intention here to piss women off? And make sure they don't read other threads on the topic?

Because that's how it feels to me.

PurpleSunrise · 06/06/2021 21:31

Yes I agree with you OP

MotherOffCod · 06/06/2021 21:31

This isn’t an AIBU at all. It ought to be in Site Stuff.

NiceGerbil · 06/06/2021 21:32

OP

I have TOLD YOU WHY.

I've been here for yonks. Was part of the conversations when FWR was set up.

It has always been this way.

What exactly are you implying? About why feminism threads get shifted.

Because it's really not complicated.