To be fair, if the whole family has agreed plans, in this situation, i.e, relating to DH and older dc, it’s not fair for it to be down to the one person who’s got up and is already busy with a baby, and no doubt is instrumental in organising everything week in week out, to go around waking the rest of the household. I would wake someone who I though had accidentally overslept, but if it’s a case of they all can’t be bothered then just no. A poster upthread said ‘try to be supportive’, really? Jesus wept.
In that scenario I would just go myself and do something else for the morning, and maybe do something together later, but not let it spoil my day.
As an aside, is it really ‘normal’ for teens to lay in bed until the afternoon at weekends?
I’m on teen number five now, she lays in sometimes, awake and on her phone, but she’s usually up by 10, 10.30am latest, because she’s hungry. If we make plans and she’s involved in that, at 14 she’s willing and capable of getting herself up.
My other four were always up at weekends, for rugby, meeting friends, gym, or if no specific plans, just to read or game whatever. Sometimes a bit of a lay in if they’ve had a late night but not really excessive. This is also my experience of their friends and gfs/bfs. DS’s gf has been staying here since she was 17 and she’s always up. The older ones, early 20s, have all lived at home the last year and if no plans at the weekends they’re still up between 8-10am ish. That’s my personal experience of ‘normal’.
I’ve definitely been guilty of the odd ‘don’t waste the day’ comment, but still pretty flexible about it. DH is an early riser and always getting on with something around the house or garden so I think it’s just rubbed off a bit.