to roll my eyes at those who are living in sin?

[sceptic]

I have five children, all by the same father, all in wedlock. And no, we are not on benefits, not even tax rebates.

Why do so many mumsnetter thinks this is totally uncool, and then whinge about their broken relationships?

Oh well I'm not very cool then, I am married but am on benefit, ho hum.

????? wiiiiieeeeeerd.

ps pmsl @ Kerry mum and 20 kids by 15 fathers

And even better Vicky Pollard with 4 by 5 different fathers...

I think the OP is my FIL.
When Dh and I got married, he said something on the lines of "well at least the next child will be born in wedlock" - DH has a ds by an ex-gf.
Ignorant old git. His parents refused to acknowledge dss until he was nearly a year old because it was such a disgrace he was illegitimate. So you can see where FIL gets it from...

Fecking ell, living in sin! Did the OP travel in the tardis from Victorian England. Pmsl.

Lol, living in sin? Who cares if people are married or not??

In answer to your "question" Yes YABU

YANBU

your being twuntish

Ooh and I had our dd 2 weeks after we got married, does that count? (rolls eyes)

sinners the lot