to roll my eyes at those who are living in sin?

[sceptic]

I have five children, all by the same father, all in wedlock. And no, we are not on benefits, not even tax rebates.

Why do so many mumsnetter thinks this is totally uncool, and then whinge about their broken relationships?

Hey, maybe I'm happy to be uncool.

this OP is so offensive. Clearly it is bash single mothers night on MN tonight.

to the OP: if you are for real, you are totally imagining what other peopel think. I couldnt care less about your marital status, but if I'm on the receiving end of your nasty little prejudices against single mothers, then you'll get a verbal smack in the gob.

It's not just single mothers who have children out of wedlock.

Yeah, totally agree - down with those who are living in sin (2 children, different mothers, same father, technically not living in sin any more).

and i'm not even single!
what is this - daily (hate)mail night?
F**k her, close the thread down.

ooh dotty, youll boggle her mind with your different mothers set up

sin rocks. i try to sin every day. to my mind, if there were a god, theyd be well pissed off with me if i didnt at least try. what a waste of life if you spend it all being a pious sanctimonious tight sphinctered old busybody.

I'm not living in sin. I'm living in a committed relationship with a child. My idea of sin is hurting other people. If yours is because of your religion, it's based on some arbitrary religious rule based on an ancient book that's been translated umpteen times. You follow that rule why? To get yourself into heaven. I follow my moral code to avoid hurting other people. You haven't got the moral high ground here.

Loving the use of the word 'wedlock'.
Do you live betwixt the pages of a Catherine Cookson novel?

well said, snow leopard

oh, can i play?

I see your wedlock, 5 children and no benefits, and I raise you a silver granada, the daily mail, and some pampas grass!

what?

What do you mean, it's not a competition!

I wish I had a tighter sphincter. Must be all that none marital arse banditry.

pampas grass!

pmsl at colditz
and also smiling at Flame's kids having the same fatherS - was that some sort of genetic experiment then??

Girls/Ladies

Calm down, SEPTIC (note spelling) is a shit stirrer.

Only read op
OMG!
What the feck?

I have been with dp out of wedlock for 9years. We have 2 children together. We love and trust eachother. We are not on benefits.

What difference does a piece of paper make to that? Feck all! Only £15000 spent on one day and a honeymoon i cant afford - nor probobly ever will.

LOL at this thread title

I don't really know why you're asking if yabu, I suspect you're a stranger to reason

Arse banditry

i have 2 dc to 2 differnt fathers, both out of wedlock (one was a fling OMG [shock}) and ive been on benefits....Jeez im soooo cool

is marital arse banditry- you know, in wedlock [snigger] less cool then?

coz i only do cool stuff.

Goodness, it's a joke, serious posts on this note only happen in Tennessee.

hey, those underpants really are lucky

great name btw

Well, if it's none marital you can presumably go and do it in his bed, not your own. If marital, surely all you could think about is whether surf would get your sheets clean! So not cool.

pmsl thanks!

good grief, i know its a joke! im jesting too-does it not show? doh!