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To think that all men watch porn even when in a sexually gratifying relationship ?

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pedestalpony · 16/03/2021 20:39

Possibly done to death but do they or at least the majority and if so are you ok with it ?
No real back story but have reason to believe that my bf does now and again ... mainly through presumption of women he follows on Facebook ... first six pictures etc.
I know he also games with many men and women throughout the world through that platform so he has many' friends' from that..
He doesn't like or comment on the women's posts but they show up now and again on the six profile pics of his friends on Facebook .
Am I being a prude/ presumptuous / overthinking .

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Helmetbymidnight · 19/03/2021 18:35

I thought it was funny.

I know its common on mn for people in sexually satisfying relationships to not feel the need to or want to masturbate I’m not so sure if it’s so common outside of mn

And again, another one who genuinely doesn't know there is a difference between masturbation and porn.

GoLightlyontheEarth · 19/03/2021 18:41

@Helmetbymidnight

I thought it was funny.

I know its common on mn for people in sexually satisfying relationships to not feel the need to or want to masturbate I’m not so sure if it’s so common outside of mn

And again, another one who genuinely doesn't know there is a difference between masturbation and porn.

What was the definition of porn then in Neolithic times ? Painting an erection or Sado masochistic orgies I wonder? Or exploitation of slaves for sexual gratification? Just wondering..
GoLightlyontheEarth · 19/03/2021 18:42

Sex with donkeys?

Helmetbymidnight · 19/03/2021 18:45

I've no idea if men looked at cave paintings to wank, but I imagine there was always a cohort of not very bright women who repeatedly went around going:
ALL MEN STARE AT CAVE PAINTINGS TO WANK - OR THEY ARE LYING.

GoLightlyontheEarth · 19/03/2021 18:50

@Helmetbymidnight

I've no idea if men looked at cave paintings to wank, but I imagine there was always a cohort of not very bright women who repeatedly went around going: ALL MEN STARE AT CAVE PAINTINGS TO WANK - OR THEY ARE LYING.
😂
OhWhyNot · 19/03/2021 18:50

Yes I do Helmetbymidnight

Read my other posts

Pancake4life · 19/03/2021 18:51

you've got delusions of grandure @helmet as well as being socially inept and rude . I suggest you speak to someone about sorting that out..

May17th · 19/03/2021 18:52

@NormanStangerson

Not all of them, but probably most of them, despite what they tell their life partners.
This
LucieStar · 19/03/2021 18:53

Wanking at cave paintings now.
Dear god this thread is comedy gold 😂

GoLightlyontheEarth · 19/03/2021 18:56

Pretty low opinion of men on this thread. All of them slaves to internet porn.

LucieStar · 19/03/2021 18:57

Pretty low opinion of men on this thread.

Just on this thread?? Grin

mumoftinyterrors · 19/03/2021 18:58

Sitting here with my OH. He just said every bloke watches porn whether or not they admit it to you. Sorry to burst your bubble.

OhWhyNot · 19/03/2021 19:00

But thats the thing

Who is judging men for enjoying porn

Or claiming they are slaves to internet porn

I can’t be the only one that knew of hidden away porn magazines

SirVixofVixHall · 19/03/2021 19:01

Not every bloke finds women being abused sexually arousing, thank God.

Helmetbymidnight · 19/03/2021 19:01

you've got delusions of grandure as well as being socially inept and rude . I suggest you speak to someone about sorting that out.

Grin
BigFatLiar · 19/03/2021 19:13

What was the definition of porn then in Neolithic times ? Painting an erection or Sado masochistic orgies I wonder? Or exploitation of slaves for sexual gratification? Just wondering.

I doubt they considered it porn. Public orgies were at times mainstream, religious even.
As an oldie I'd say that what was porn a few years ago would now be fairly tame compared to some of modern TV & films (not including the more extreme stuff). How many of us have watched the likes of 50 shades - a film that your parents would probably have thought of as porn. Having read a fair bit of modern young adult romance (which I don't believe is aimed at boys) recently I'd say quite a bit of that is little more than soft porn.

BigFatLiar · 19/03/2021 19:15

I can’t be the only one that knew of hidden away porn magazines

Or his secret stash of car magazines and train books (in the shed)

OhWhyNot · 19/03/2021 19:23

Yes those too

Probably not as well hidden

HamFisted · 19/03/2021 19:24

@mumoftinyterrors

Sitting here with my OH. He just said every bloke watches porn whether or not they admit it to you. Sorry to burst your bubble.
Oh, thank goodness you and your omnipotent DH are here!

It's OK, Mumsnet- we can stop the discussion now! @mumoftinyterrors's DH is here and he knows what all men are secretly thinking!

Get your DH to do an AMA please @mumoftinyterrors. I'm sure we all have lots of questions.

HamFisted · 19/03/2021 19:24

Sorry, OH- misread

RufustheSniggeringReindeer · 19/03/2021 19:28

It's OK, Mumsnet- we can stop the discussion now! *@mumoftinyterrors's DH is here and he knows what all men are secretly thinking!

Oh thank god thats sorted

End of thread then surely

LemonRoses · 19/03/2021 19:29

@mumoftinyterrors

Sitting here with my OH. He just said every bloke watches porn whether or not they admit it to you. Sorry to burst your bubble.
And his evidence base?
U2HasTheEdge · 19/03/2021 19:32

@mumoftinyterrors

Sitting here with my OH. He just said every bloke watches porn whether or not they admit it to you. Sorry to burst your bubble.
Ohh wow, he must be right!

Mr mumoftinyterrors has spoken for ALL men! No more debate to be had.. bubble well and truly burst.

Grenred · 19/03/2021 19:47

@mumoftinyterrors

Sitting here with my OH. He just said every bloke watches porn whether or not they admit it to you. Sorry to burst your bubble.
He's got a lot of free time to speak to every single man to find out.

Dh is not lying when he says he doesn't watch porn.

Sea12 · 19/03/2021 19:49

its amazing that of the small % of men that DONT watch porn all seem to be dating / married to women on mumsnet

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