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Making Love

343 replies

ProcrastinationIsMySuperPower · 16/03/2021 17:08

My DH insists that the term "making love" is romantic.

I think it's cringe-y and old-fashioned. I think having sex is just that, why call it something else?

Really interested to get some other opinions... Also hoping to prove DH wrong (in a totally light hearted way).

So - YABU - Making love is oh so romantic
YANBU - call it what it is!!

OP posts:
Easterbunnygettingready · 16/03/2021 17:09

Recent thread heard a ndn call it having his pipes cleared....
Grin

ProcrastinationIsMySuperPower · 16/03/2021 17:12

Well that's a new one on me 😂

OP posts:
thepeopleversuswork · 16/03/2021 17:13

It makes me heave. It belongs in Mills and Boon and has no place in the 21st century.

Sex is sex. Sex with someone you love is or should be better than a random shag. But its still sex.

imwaypasttense · 16/03/2021 17:15

Ye Gads my mother has always called it making love .

(Better than my grandmother who only says ‘committing the act of fornication’ for unmarried and ‘copulating’ for married).

My family have weird hang ups ... I’ve always just called it sex!

LubaLuca · 16/03/2021 17:16

Yeah, it's a bit coy and awkward.

peak2021 · 16/03/2021 17:17

I'd say it is a dated term.

Aquamarine1029 · 16/03/2021 17:18

Shudder. "Making love" makes my skin crawl.

Laila747 · 16/03/2021 17:19

It’s sex.

Make love, shag, Doing the deed and grinding are all vomit inducing to me.

TechnoDino · 16/03/2021 17:20

I’m with you. DH sometimes says it to wind me up!

lollipoprainbow · 16/03/2021 17:23

Always makes me cringe !!

VerityWibbleWobble · 16/03/2021 17:26

It makes me shudder and not in a good way, excuse me whilst I go and vomit Grin

TheLost · 16/03/2021 17:26

I like a shag or a fuck, love making makes me feel a bit sick. It reminds me of a boyfriend I had in my early twenties, he introduced me at a party once as “this is my lover, TheLost”. He was Norwegian and it made him sound like a serial killer.

Xyzzzzz · 16/03/2021 17:28

Makes me cringe!

BeautyQueenIamNot · 16/03/2021 17:28

Sorry, makes me cringe!

We fuck or have sex 🤷‍♀️

WoolieLiberal · 16/03/2021 17:29

I think this might be a marmite thread.

I love the term “making love” or “love making”.

The terms “shag” and “f*” are the ones that make me cringe.

Each to their own I suppose...

ivegotmyteddybear · 16/03/2021 17:29

I don't mind shag, we joke about and say bone usually. Or, do you want to have sex?

WoolieLiberal · 16/03/2021 17:30

There’s always “coitus”, of course!

Cam2020 · 16/03/2021 17:30

🤮🤮🤮

RosemarysCat · 16/03/2021 17:30

Cringe.

TheBullfinch · 16/03/2021 17:30

@TheLost

I like a shag or a fuck, love making makes me feel a bit sick. It reminds me of a boyfriend I had in my early twenties, he introduced me at a party once as “this is my lover, TheLost”. He was Norwegian and it made him sound like a serial killer.
Grin

I used to have an ex who called it 'rumpy.'

You can see why he's an ex.

As for OP's husband, tell him he gets none while he refers to it as 'making luurve'

KaleidoscopeEars · 16/03/2021 17:31

I don’t get making love. I think the phrase was coined by someone cheesy who thought that they could make someone love them by having sex with them.
ER I don’t think so.

JustYourAverageSue · 16/03/2021 17:31

My partner and I just call it 'Bumping Uglies'

Tillytrotterisarotter · 16/03/2021 17:31

Its nippy nippy surely

RelaisBlu · 16/03/2021 17:33

He was Norwegian and it made him sound like a serial killer

Grin Grin Grin Grin

FlossieTeacakesFurCoat18 · 16/03/2021 17:34

Aw everyone is being so unromantic!