Middle ground. I think the monarchy is outdated, though I don't dislike them as individuals. I think Meghan and Harry got hounded by the press, which must be unpleasant, much of the coverage seemed racist, and it must also have been horrific for H because of what happened to Diana. But at the same time, literally ALL of their privilege is due to H being royal. Even their 'independence' is down to cashing in on that status, so I'd have more respect if M went back to acting and H got a job.
I think idea that M could be banned from getting mental health treatment sounds ridiculous. I just don't believe that if you want to see a doctor and you're a member of the royal family, that you'd have to go through a few gatekeepers first, who might ban you from getting treatment. This isn't naive Diana in the 80s, it's confident, modern people in their 30s FFS. And the younger royals have been mental health ambassadors since before H met M, so you'd think H would have had the awareness and sense to sort this out, even if M wasn't in a state to be assertive.
I do think they've experienced racism, but e.g. my bf from school is in a mixed race marriage and her dad made crass comments about hoping the kids would have pale skin. Which is racist and nasty, but it's also from a man who is now in his 80s, so grew up in an era when sexism and racism were, unfortunately, quite normal. If it was William who had the skin colour conversation then that would be horrifying, but if it was Philip or Charles, then it's probably not unusual for people of their ages, class and narrow upbringings to think those kind of stupid things. And we know that Philip, at least, is unable to keep his narrow-minded thoughts to himself, so, unacceptable though it might be, surely it would be expected from an older member of a reactionary institution like the monarchy, and not really shocking, more something for an eye-roll and maybe a family meeting or whatever they have, to say that this kind of crap isn't acceptable now. I know a few old Etonians through work, and I find it hard to believe that anyone could go through that school and come out a shrinking violet who isn't able to call a doctor or call someone out for being offensive.
As individuals I have sympathy for their distress, but I think they're self-indulgent and it's ridiculous to think that doing a highly publicised interview is going to get the press off their backs. I also think they should own the fact that part of 'their truth' is that they are cashing in on the royal connection, because Oprah wouldn't interview Jo Bloggs off the street whose bigoted in-laws made her feel unwelcome.
So, I'm not on anyone's team, I think they should all just keep quiet and get on with their lives.