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Team Meghan or Team Windsor?

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QueenofTheCandles · 08/03/2021 10:13

Yes - Team Meghan

No - Team Windsor

Nothing - Don’t really care!

OP posts:
Hoppinggreen · 08/03/2021 10:47

@Fuckadoodledoooo

I do feel incredibly sorry for them about the comments regarding how dark the baby would be.

I had the same from ex in laws. I'm mixed race and they were distraught at what the people at the rotary club and the masons would think of my baby was black (I'm not black, I'm half Indian but let's not let that get in the way of a bit of racism).

As it turns out my dc had their pale colouring and blonde hair.

But it's horrible to hear that when you are pregnant.

What comments? From who? There is absolutely no evidence for that at all I am not Team anything but I do think it’s very easy for M and Harry to say anything and it’s highly unlikely The Palace will sue

That was really shit for you Fuckadoodledooo, what a pair of Dicks but we don’t know if that was the case here.

SirVixofVixHall · 08/03/2021 10:47

@DaisyHeadMaisey

I think the whole thing is embarrassing, there is a global pandemic going on, hundreds of thousands of people are dead or dying, we are about to go into a massive recession and these privileged rich idiots are slinging mud at each other Hmm
This. Totally tone deaf and really cringey now. Also agree with rocks post above on weak men marrying their mothers.
TheOtherMaryBerry · 08/03/2021 10:47

However, the fact that H&M claimed to have got married three days beforehand with only the two of them and the archbishop (which would be a legal impossibility) suggests that at best they are delusional and at worst they are willing to brazenly lie for personal gain. So I question how much of the rest of it is true.

This, very much so. I'm not a fan of Megan, haven't been since the whole 'no one asked me if I was OK' debacle. The fact that she actually said that, in Africa, no less, showed just how much she lives in la la land. So much of last nights interview just did not make sense at all.
Now, I sympathise with her feeling awful, I really do. I know poor mental health can strike anyone, but is she really saying that she felt suicidal, whilst being pregnant, and didn't tell her antenatal team!? Despite having superior health care? Or wasn't able to organise private counselling herself or through Harry, despite both Harry and William regularly talking about the importance of good mh support?
Maybe I'm wrong to feel like this but I struggled terribly with pnd after being abandoned post birth and was given literally no support (really shocking Dr's surgery) and I'm really struggling now, living in a tiny flat miles away from family with a non stop 3 year old and I filled out a self referral form for help from my local mh service and I'm still waiting for a call back weeks later, so frankly, I'm struggling to feel sympathetic

poppycat10 · 08/03/2021 10:48

Neither. Once I read the bit about the bridesmaid dress fitting and Kate is meant to have made Meghan cry or vice versa. I mean really? How old are these women?

Utterly pathetic.

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Knitterbabe · 08/03/2021 10:49

Perfectly put, Granny!

SirVixofVixHall · 08/03/2021 10:50

Agree Granny.

GCAcademic · 08/03/2021 10:52

As someone who has never met her maternal grandmother because she disowned my mother for marrying a man who wasn't white, I am pretty sensitive to the kind of attitude that was mentioned in the interview.

However, I think if you are going to make that sort of accusation, you have to state it clearly and not create a situation which is going to invite rapid speculation and bring suspicion on a whole load of innocent people. I can only think that they must be happy for the whole family to be tarred in this way.

MyLittleOrangutan · 08/03/2021 10:52

Harry's the only member of that family I've ever liked, except Diana. They're vile, I'm glad Meghan and Harry are taking them on.

Blancah · 08/03/2021 10:52

Team M&H

But I'm going to leave it at that as I just had a post removed for calling out a disgusting person who made disgraceful comments about Meghans suicidal thoughts. This place has gone to shit and @MNHQ should be thoroughly ashamed of themselves.

dottiedodah · 08/03/2021 10:52

TBH I am tired of all this crap! Whatever the rights and wrongs of it .There is likely going to be a clash of personalities ,between an Upper Class lady wealthy beyond measure, and a young American actress! I cant be doing with "He said She said" We are in a pandemic, and worried about Covid ,Job losses and so on.The decent thing for H and M would be to relocate to the US and keep a dignified silence! The Queen has welcomed them and Doria for Christmas .Prince Charles gave Meghan away when her Father was unable to ,The Queen gifted them a Cottage at Frogmore (now gratefully appreciated by Princess Beatrice and her Family )So its hard to see how they feel so unhappy! Apparently some unkind remarks were made about baby Archie .Surely these should have been dealt with at that time?

poppycat10 · 08/03/2021 10:53

@DaisyHeadMaisey

I think the whole thing is embarrassing, there is a global pandemic going on, hundreds of thousands of people are dead or dying, we are about to go into a massive recession and these privileged rich idiots are slinging mud at each other Hmm
Indeed.
RaspberryCoulis · 08/03/2021 10:53

It's all very Eastenders, isn't it. Or more Dynasty. The dramatic music, the pauses, the coy hanging of her head. Making all these wild allegations, hinting at senior royals, but of course not naming names to keep us all guessing.

And they know that there is no way that Queenie, William and Kate are going to sit down and do a similar interview with Holly Willoughby. They will do as they have always done and stay silent.

The racism thing may be true or may be a throwaway "oh I wonder if he'll have red hair or darker skin" comment taken out of context. Who knows. I've certainly had similar comments about my kids "do you think the next one will have red hair too??" It's a strong narrative for Ms Markle though - nasty racist Brits chased me out of the UK when all I wanted was to be a superstar princess. Poor little me.

JustTurtlesAllTheWayDown · 08/03/2021 10:53

A massive yabu to the question and not the teams one. I know it's lockdown and we're all bored, but the media frenzy over someone else's family drama - royal or not - is just ridiculous. It's nothing more than mass curtain twitching at a national level.

Lynora · 08/03/2021 10:54

Team republic.

OnlyTeaForMe · 08/03/2021 10:54

Neither.
But I think the 'big interview' is a mistake.

The skin colour discussion is clearly PP and it doesn't surprise me. I'm no apologist for him, but he is a 99 year-old who has lived through huge changes in race relations and simply has never caught up. My 97 year old FIL is exactly the same.
If this is the most shocking revelation of H&M's then they really are scraping the bottom of the barrel.

TBH I found the fact that they took away Meghan's keys, passport and Drivers Licence more shocking! Why?

Blacktothepink · 08/03/2021 10:54

None...get rid of all of them I say!

FatCatThinCat · 08/03/2021 10:55

I expect there's wrong doing on both sides, but airing your dirty washing in public, across the world, is trashy.

Dissimilitude · 08/03/2021 10:55

This is who Meghan is, so I'm not surprised. She's a woke-ish self-publicist who wanted all the good bits of royalty (money, fame, status) and none of the bad (not getting overly involved in commerce or politics). There was a clear culture clash and some bad-feeling that she's now weaponising as racism, using that to add rocket fuel to their newly-founded media careers.

Harry, though. I reserve special contempt for him. Nothing lower than throwing your family under the bus for the sake of status / money. He is pathetic.

DynamoKev · 08/03/2021 10:57

They can all fuck off.

RaspberryCoulis · 08/03/2021 10:58

@Alleycat1

Absolute nonsense that Archie was 'refused a title'. He is not eligible for one until Charles becomes King as he is too far from the succession. Harry, at least, has to know that and did not correct the impression that Meghan's statement made. For that disingenuous comment alone I am now team palace. Also whining about being cut of financially irritated me. They left the job and left the country. Who gets paid for a job they don't and won't do? They have millions in their own right. Just wish they would shut up.
But the American viewing public don't know that. They don't know that Princess Anne's children aren't titled, or that Edward's children are Viscount and Lady not Prince and Princess. And Oprah's not going to pull her up on it.

It plays better into their narrative of "poor little hard done by us".

notalwaysalondoner · 08/03/2021 10:59

It is just so unbelievably tacky and I can't believe he has stooped to that level. I'm embarrassed for him - it's what you'd expect from a nobody celebrity-seeking actress, but to do this to his family is just embarrassing. I have never been able to forgive him for the fact htey announced they were moving to Canada and leaving official duties without even mentioning it to Charles or William first - can you imagine finding out your much-loved child or sibling you saw really frequently was moving to the other side of the world without them mentioning to you first? Unforgivable.

AmazoniaBun · 08/03/2021 10:59

In the midst of a global crisis, it’s totally irrelevant!! I’m not a supporter for the monarchy. Harry and Meghan are a pair of self-obsessed twits without a grip on reality.

DynamoKev · 08/03/2021 10:59

TBH I found the fact that they took away Meghan's keys, passport and Drivers Licence more shocking! Why?
I assume this is for security protection.

year5teacher · 08/03/2021 11:00

I’m team fuck the whole monarchy.

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