@letsghostdance
There is actually no way that this happened.
How I wish this were true.
There is a large movement of people who have been trained to believe that sex is a social construct and that in order to get rid of sexism you must get rid of sex as a category entirely, which is bonkers. You don't get rid of racism by pretending black people don't exist, it would take away their ability to name the problem.
The same people tell women we are wrong to use words like "breastfeeding" "women's health" "pregnant woman" or talk about any aspect of being a woman while acknowledging this is a female only experience. Instead we should use words like "chest feeding" "pregnant person' "person with a cervix" etc.
This matters. There is huge pressure on government and organisations to bow to this.
What's going on with the ONS is they have added a question on gender to the Census. No one us objecting to this.
It would make a lot of sense to have a question on biological sex plus a question gender as currently no one has reliable data on how many trans people there are in society or what age they are. Knowing this would benefit trans people in allocation of resources.
If trans advocacy groups were just about advocating for trans people and if feminist groups were really the evil anti-trans groups they are slurred as, then you could expect the feminists to be against having an additional question on gender and the trans activists groups to support clear questions on sex and gender so they can be properly counted. But that's the opposite of what's happening.
The ONS is planning to put out guidance that effectively means lots of trans people will be able to hide their biological sex and instead answer the sex question with the sex they wish they were. This is a nonsense, and that the very government department responsible for national statistics is allowing people to lie on the census because of this ideology should really be a wake up call.
This isn't about the ONS supporting trans rights, it's about erasing sex as a meaningful category. It's partly because that's so absurd and because so many people (quite understandably) think this is too idiotic to actually be happening, that this influential movement goes unnoticed by a lot of society.
I can totally believe the chat in the OP happened. Twitter is full of people who will tell you sex isn't real, and claim that sex is a social construct.
Feminist groups are desperately trying to sound the alarm that this is happening.