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To find it odd that she felt the need to correct me

278 replies

Holidaypending · 18/02/2021 13:20

I was asked how old I was at work so I said 25 as I’m 25 in. July. Work fired then say oh you actually 24 not 25. I don’t see what difference it makes as I’m very nearly 25 so simple rounded up.

OP posts:
ViciousJackdaw · 18/02/2021 14:10

You're getting this all wrong. You're supposed to subtract a year or two, not add them.

RootyT00t · 18/02/2021 14:11

@OnceIWasAnApe

What?! Why did you lie about your age?!
Calm down.
Bookwords · 18/02/2021 14:11

But you are 24!

YoniAndGuy · 18/02/2021 14:12

You are very odd Grin and definitely pretty much 24 and a half.

Nearly 3/4s

Is your name Adriana Mole?

RootyT00t · 18/02/2021 14:12

@SeasonFinale

A PP has hit the nail on the head.

If you are on minimum wage then the rate is higher for a 25 year old than someone between 21-24.

Thus if they have been paying you as a 25 year old your false statement was fraudulent.

Even if you are on a higher rate than NMW if there is any element of insurance they need to pay in respect of you to carry out your job your false statement may have led to them unknowingly committing fraud

It wasn't though.

I assume OP gave her date of birth on her original paperwork.

She just rounds up in conversation which is perfectly normal.

So let's not make her out to be fraudulent.

flappityflippers1 · 18/02/2021 14:14

So I used to do this too! I have an august birthday and from may onwards I’d say I was the next age up. I was always so so so eager to be a year older - I HATED late teens/early 20’s, had no confidence and really admired older women who seemed to have their shit together. So I’d start rounding up as soon as I passed the half way Mark in the year 🙈

Then I hit 30 and have stopped that now haha.

Also helps that I’m settled, secure in myself etc etc. I’d never want to go back and repeat my 20’s 🤢

Your friend is not unreasonable to correct you, but you’re not the first to do it and won’t be the last.

MeepleMe · 18/02/2021 14:17

Weird thing to do IMO. Like another poster I frequently ask people their ages, or more often their children's, and I get so many saying 'nearly',
it winds me up. Had a lady the other day saying 'coming up to 3, almost 5 and nearly 11', right I said, so you mean 2, 4 and 10?! Why not just say their actual ages?!

CoastAlong · 18/02/2021 14:17

There was a thread like this a few months ago by a poster who always gave the age of her children as the age they would be on their next birthday. The whole thread was crazy.

When her child had just gone from 3 to 4 on their birthday, she would tell people the child was 5, or something like that. Most people on the thread were asking why.

BrightBean · 18/02/2021 14:17

You're 24, why on earth would you say 25?
I was born in the last week of the calendar year and get annoyed with people rounding up my age when I have to get through the whole year to get there! Did you just go well I was born in 1996 and it's 2021 so I must be 25? That's what I get from others all year.

SeasonFinale · 18/02/2021 14:18

@ RootyT00t Sorry - I read her original post as "work fired" meaning she had been been fired for the false statement.

Shinyletsbebadguys · 18/02/2021 14:19

@CoastAlong

There was a thread like this a few months ago by a poster who always gave the age of her children as the age they would be on their next birthday. The whole thread was crazy.

When her child had just gone from 3 to 4 on their birthday, she would tell people the child was 5, or something like that. Most people on the thread were asking why.

See the problem I would have with that is that I would most definitely get very confused , forget what year they actually were , and end up accidentally stealing a year from my DC. There would definitely be issues on their 18th birthday when we discovered they were 35.

Too risky.

Ch3rish · 18/02/2021 14:20

This is so ridiculous that I think the OP is having us on, no normal person does this

ClangingChimesofDoom · 18/02/2021 14:22

Maybe this is an old-fashioned reverse thread? I haven't seen one in a while. How nostalgic!

Sparklesocks · 18/02/2021 14:23

You're not 25 though Grin

TatianaBis · 18/02/2021 14:25

My mum always rounds up, some people do.

TokenGinger · 18/02/2021 14:27

July is nearly half a year away.

Rivergreen · 18/02/2021 14:28

Are you a horse?!

When I was a kid, my friend with an August birthday would always say she was "rising 11" or whatever for the first half of the year before she turned 11 as she hated being the youngest! All racehorses are given the same birthday (1jan) in the year, so you say "rising" before the age until they have actually had their real birthday. Non-racehorses it's 1st April and Southern hemisphere racehorses is 1st August. Useless fact for the day! Grin

emmathedilemma · 18/02/2021 14:28

Have you considered changing your username to "birthdaypending"?

notalwaysalondoner · 18/02/2021 14:29

Even if your birthday was next week the normal thing to reply would be “I’m 24, 25 next week!”

Chemenger · 18/02/2021 14:30

My birthday is tomorrow and I am still saying I'm x years old, not x+1 because that is a fact. That's what birthdays are, the year your age changes (unless of course the OP is a racehorse, they all get a year older on the 1st of January).

Iminaglasscaseofemotion · 18/02/2021 14:30

@SeasonFinale

A PP has hit the nail on the head.

If you are on minimum wage then the rate is higher for a 25 year old than someone between 21-24.

Thus if they have been paying you as a 25 year old your false statement was fraudulent.

Even if you are on a higher rate than NMW if there is any element of insurance they need to pay in respect of you to carry out your job your false statement may have led to them unknowingly committing fraud

Oh I love how carried away people get 9n MN 🤣
northbacchus · 18/02/2021 14:32

You could say you're 25 in July, but saying you're 25 already is a little bizarre! Why would/did you round up?

MuddyPawPrintsEverywhere · 18/02/2021 14:32

Yeah, it's strange to round up your age, especially when you're months away your birthday. Also strange for her to correct you, but maybe she was startled into blurting out the truth, since it's so unusual for an adult to "round up" their age.

SparkysMagicPiano · 18/02/2021 14:35

Maybe start saying your age in months. Confused

RootyT00t · 18/02/2021 14:36

MN hates birthdays anyway, so you wouldn't be allowed to say when you change age.