Friend says boyfriend has been suspended for having a threesome

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AIBU to think that there must be more to this? Friend phoned me because her partner has been suspended (he works in a professional job - think police). They have an open relationship and both sleep with other people. I have been considering having a threesome recently, or starting a fwb relationship, and am well and truly put off by this whole debacle! Apparently he disclosed to a colleague that he had a threesome before lockdown and this made its way to management and he's been suspended for this and this alone! Surely he is entitled to a private sex life? My friend knows I've posted this here and is also curious to know if he's hiding something from her... Thoughts? Is he lying?

Was the other person not in their covid bubble then?

Maybe it's all happening in the stationery cupboard at work? That would be reason for suspension/firing.

There has to be more to it than he's letting on.

There must have been something done wrongly procedurally.

What is the procedurally correct way to do a threesome?

You used to be able to get sacked for adultery in the military too - I don't know if that's still the case. Threesoms would likely fall under the same kinds of rules.

@MadameButterface

Ughhhhhh this has brought back memories of a former colleague i had who used to go on and on about being ‘into kink’ it used to make me feel really queasy especially as he looked like that bloke who used to shuffle on and go ‘milky milky’ on the mary whitehouse experience 🤢

@ParlezVousWronglais

There must have been something done wrongly procedurally.

What is the procedurally correct way to do a threesome?

If you have any security clearance shockingly its to inform hr before you do it.

It can be stackable not to disclose anything that makes you open to blackmail.

But in this case would the reason given be serial harassment (clearly other employee wasn't happy to be told this or for breaching covid restrictions?

Lol unless he had a three some on the job, during working hours, then this is nonsense.😂

Is he in the police then? I know of other professions where you could get in trouble. A teacher shared saucy photos of herself on her FB and got in trouble, especially as she had some of the 6th form students she taught as FB friends.