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So what, I'm ugly, get over it or don't look at me

98 replies

Leannethom85 · 17/01/2021 23:17

I have a bunch of women constantly on my case and make remarks about me being ugly, in a group mind, never alone! they say nothing when alone and put their heads down when they pass me.
I accept I'm ugly as fuck, I've been told it since primary school by just about everyone I've ever came into contact with, so what is there to achieve! Hurt my feelings I guess but I'm used to it so why don't they think something new up? I've also been called smelly lol, so ugly and smelly.
Aibu to think this group of repetitive morons are a wee bit obsessed by me and my family?

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RedHelenB · 17/01/2021 23:18

Which women?

shitinmyhandsandclap · 17/01/2021 23:19

Erm your last sentence is odd, what's your family got to do with it and why are they obsessed

Cheeseycheeseycheesecheese · 17/01/2021 23:19

Who are they? Strangers? People you know well?

Cherry321 · 17/01/2021 23:20

Flowers they sound nasty and like they don’t have much going on in their own lives. Ignore them.

MrsKypp · 17/01/2021 23:20

I wonder if you are in fact ugly, or whether you just think you are (and aren't)?

What is ugly - specifically? e.g. greasy hair, too skinny, massive nose etc?

being told you are ugly could be because the people were jealous of you. They wanted to put you down.

Leannethom85 · 17/01/2021 23:20

Because the have pops at my family too, it's every damn time they see me or any family member, it's boring as fuck too. It's the same thing over and over.

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GeordieGreigsButtButtZoom · 17/01/2021 23:20

Wait, what? A group of adult women are telling you you're ugly?

Maybe tell them they've got fleas, keep it at the playground level they work on.

AnneLovesGilbert · 17/01/2021 23:22

Are you famous? Why are they obsessed with your family?

vodkaredbullgirl · 17/01/2021 23:22

Ignore them

Stellaroses · 17/01/2021 23:22

Tell us more about these women. How do you know they’re talking about you?

Leannethom85 · 17/01/2021 23:22

I didn't know them until they appeared on my radar, they are younger than me. No I'm genuinely was never a beauty I am me, butt ugly and actually quite proud of it to be honest.

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CrotchBurn · 17/01/2021 23:22

WTF? They sound like complete bitches. What's the context here? Is it at work? Or do you live in a community thags very "in each others pockets"?

GeordieGreigsButtButtZoom · 17/01/2021 23:23

How are they coming into contact with you?

NiceGerbil · 17/01/2021 23:25

Is this in real life? They hang around together a lot and when they see you or your family they give you abuse?

I'm not sure I understand the situation.

queenofSI · 17/01/2021 23:25

what?

wildthingsinthenight · 17/01/2021 23:25

Where do you bump into them? How old are they and you? This sounds horrible

GreenClock · 17/01/2021 23:25

They sound like abject scumbags who are not worthy of your headspace OP.

PickAChew · 17/01/2021 23:26

This is such a weird interaction. I'm no stunner but the last time I experienced anything like that I was about 14.

Leannethom85 · 17/01/2021 23:26

They live in my area, and I so happen to bump into them often. Because one of them called me ugly to my face, I walked right up to her and she backed away, safe to say they were talking to me

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CrotchBurn · 17/01/2021 23:27

Jesus christ. Are they 14? They sound completely pathetic. Why would they hate your family though?

ZacSellsWeed · 17/01/2021 23:28

Huh

MiddleClassMother · 17/01/2021 23:28

Are they teenagers? Who gives a fuck what people look like these days, I bet you're beautiful in your own way OP. Not just to look at but your personality etc.

Leannethom85 · 17/01/2021 23:32

I do not know the answer to that question, why do people hate others for no reason? Had an argument with someone years ago perhaps and these clowns jumped on a bandwagon, who knows.
The question was aibu to think this constant verbal abuse is obessesive?

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Frickssake · 17/01/2021 23:33

They're not worth your time! Don't give them headspace. Find People who are happy with you just the way you are. If someone said that to me I'd probably say ODFOD! And laugh

recluse · 17/01/2021 23:36

What normal kind of people hang around in groups calling others ugly?

How old are they?