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To think we should bring back the clapping

439 replies

NYEPOPPER1 · 30/12/2020 23:50

We seem to be in a similar position to March and the NHS is coming under serious strain. Aibu to think now is the time to bring back the clapping?

OP posts:
PreRaphaeliteMotherhood · 31/12/2020 10:13

Fuck me I hated the clapping. It was meaningless virtue signalling. Petition your MP for better NHS funding, get involved in public health programmes, lose weight, give up smoking, start exercising... do anything that requires actual effort if you really want to help.

MilesJuppIsAnOldSlutOnJunk · 31/12/2020 10:19

@notacooldad

God no. I had a colleague at work filming his street with comments like 'disgraceful ' and 'disgusting" because the street was empty except his wife manically banging a pan lid with a wooden spoon! Sanctimonious prick!
A neighbour on our street posted angrily on Christmas Eve because no one except her went out & jingled our fucking bells at 6pm.

What an arse.

WhatsErFace2020 · 31/12/2020 10:21

Fuck no. I HATED it with a passion!!! Like other posters our neighbours used it as an opportunity to look down on anyone not joining in. One couple took it to new levels and appointed themselves ‘cheerleaders’ for the street 🤣 Think walking down the street filming and singing at everyone - he dressed up as spice girl one week?! WTAF. It was just cringeworthy!
It would go on for 5 mins then a PA system would play you’ll never walk alone, then they’d go over and talk for 20 mins to other neighbours...

Sooooo, no I would not be happy for it to be back

rainbowunicorn · 31/12/2020 10:22

God no it was bad enough the last time.

PoppyOppy · 31/12/2020 10:23

I never clapped. It always seemed to be the people who did exactly what they wanted and sod the rules who clapped. Sanctimonious rulebreakers.

Misshapencha0s · 31/12/2020 10:23

The ones out in my street banging pots and clapping were the same ones who have had gatherings in their homes the entire time. The doctors in the street didn't clap once.

dementedpixie · 31/12/2020 10:24

I didn't clap the first time so I wouldn't be doing it a second time

LetsGoFlyAKiteee · 31/12/2020 10:25

It lost the niceness of its gesture very quickly. Though did enjoy the oddness of the Facebook drama group on local sites. These roads didnt care as didnt clap..ill bring my pots and pans. How dare people complain about fireworks I want to show appreciation..surreal

Strawberrypancakes · 31/12/2020 10:26

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Haggertyjane · 31/12/2020 10:27

No please.

JesusInTheCabbageVan · 31/12/2020 10:30

Here you go OP. Thread from back in May. 93% of NHS workers wished we would all stop bloody clapping.

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/am_i_being_unreasonable/3917395-THE-CLAP-Lets-settle-this-If-you-work-for-the-NHS-what-do-you-think-of-it

AvoidingNextdoorNeighbour · 31/12/2020 10:37

Virtue signalling ego boosting bullshit that helps no one? Go for it. You'll be on your own though like some weirdo.

peboh · 31/12/2020 10:39

Absolutely not. No.

Topseyt · 31/12/2020 10:42

OP sounds like someone who thinks we should clap for the NHS rather than fund it properly and pay it's staff.

Bollocks to the clap. Yes to proper funding and pay. Clapping doesn't pay your bills or feed your family.

borageforager · 31/12/2020 10:42

A nicer gesture would be properly funding the NHS so the NHS worker I live with gets home in time to clap, as generally they are still in work, two hours after they are supposed to finish.

IceCreamAndCandyfloss · 31/12/2020 10:43

@NYEPOPPER1

We seem to be in a similar position to March and the NHS is coming under serious strain. Aibu to think now is the time to bring back the clapping?
Definitely not.

If we want to support the NHS then maybe more could actually follow the rules, stop mixing, wear masks, work out what 2m is, only go out for non essentials and campaign for schools to go remote so as to stop the large mixing of groups with no SD or PPE.

I suspect they would prefer that so less cases than clapping.

Here, people had parties and came out to clap Hmm

toconclude · 31/12/2020 10:44

@sessell

What a horrible, patronising attitude OP. 'No we can't afford / they don't deserve a pay rise, but another nice pat on the head / clap would be lovely for them.' 100% sure you're a Tory.
This. Look OP, I understand the 'spectrum' "double down and you'll be proven right" attitude. But it doesn't usually work, and doubly so when people are telling you perfectly valid reasons why they disagree and you obviously just want to ignore them. Go ahead, clap if you want. Just don't wake any actual carers and don't expect company.
peboh · 31/12/2020 10:45

Boris is that you?

RincewindsHat · 31/12/2020 10:47

What good does clapping do?

If you want to support the NHS in a meaningful way, don't vote Tory.

LittleBearPad · 31/12/2020 10:47

It’s interesting - the people who were most ‘enthusiastic’ about it do seem to be the people with liberal approaches to the rules. Our street was the same.

Some of these stories however about notes through doors etc are appalling.

PinkSparklyPussyCat · 31/12/2020 10:48

God no. I didn't clap last time and was seriously pissed off when a neighbour said we were missed on a Thursday night. DH and I used to say the neighbours have got the clap again.

I had to unfollow a lot of people on FB who were commenting what a good turn out their road had, it was ridiculous

TimeForDinnerDinnerDinner · 31/12/2020 10:51

No no no no no no no no no no no no NO NO NO!
Ugh!
It was a dreadful idea to start with, and would be terrible to start it again in my opinion. In the spring-summer it went on for too many weeks, and was all about virtue signalling from what I could see. Many of those weekly clappers who live on my road (including a neighbour who works in a very senior position within the NHS) regularly broke lockdown rules.
Meaningless. Pointless.
I only clapped once. After that, DH and I decided it'd be more worthwhile to give money to charities supporting the NHS. Oh, and we stuck to, and stick to, lockdown rules and tier restrictions - much more practicable Wink

annevonkleve · 31/12/2020 10:53

@RincewindsHat

What good does clapping do?

If you want to support the NHS in a meaningful way, don't vote Tory.

I forgot that one - yes, this too.
Allispretty · 31/12/2020 10:53

@RincewindsHat

What good does clapping do?

If you want to support the NHS in a meaningful way, don't vote Tory.

This...op I suspect you are a Tory however if you are not then I urge you to look into government spending then come back and tell us there isn't enough for nhs salary increases. It's an utter disgrace and wether an ordinary person started it or not Boris made sure it was televised weekly to show his "support" they make me physically sick.

And don't get me started on captain Tom...NHS is not a fucking charity!

Allispretty · 31/12/2020 10:53

@peboh

Boris is that you?
😂😂😂
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