What would you love to say to your ex?

[Ostryga]

I’ll start - I’m kind of grateful.

I’d never experienced emotional abuse before you, and now I know exactly what it can do to me in such a short space of time. And I’ll never allow myself to ever feel like that again.

Thanks for making me fight for myself. I know how fucking immensely strong I actually am.

For one of them anything. As I wish they had not died in a car accident aged 25 whilst on holiday.

"Rent a Tardis and fuck off back to the Middle Ages where you belong. You deserve your toxic mother who you are still scrounging off by living rent free in her flat with the children you are trying to alienate me from, while demanding three times the legal rate of maintenance because you're too thick, lazy and entitled to earn it yourself. You also deserve the sad bint young enough to be your daughter, who's clinging to you not because you are an awesome catch, but purely to get her a visa out of her country. She will leave you once mission is accomplished. You have destroyed me already, but keep demanding more. You have no idea how to treat women, but you are such a narcissistic liar you probably believe you were the one that gave birth a d breastfed while working fingers to the bone because you were so fucking useless. You are nothing but a parasite and I should have used a sperm donor. One day our children will realise what you are".

Thank you for giving me me the most beautiful daughter, but I hate you with every bone in my body for every single thing you have and continue to put me through. I look forward to the day you're out of my life completely.

Your CMS bill currently stands at £20k....

Followed by...I'm glad I had the strength to leave that abusive relationship after ten years. I made the right choice for my children and thank god I did.

You're a cunt, you're a cunt, you're a big fat cunt. You're a big fat fucking cunt!!

(and you smell..)

“Sorry, do I know you?”

apart from the same as you i would like to say to him i wish i had never met you when you showed interest in me i should have run a thousand miles the other way

Hi, these are your amazing, clever, kind, children (grown men).

You may not recognise them as you have been absent from their lives for the past 23 years.

Thanks for that because quite frankly you did them a massive favour.

I would tell him that him leaving me the way he did has changed the way I look at relationships, love, marriage, loyalty.

We were together for almost 20 years and he just left without a word or reason, Never found out why he left.

I would ask why he couldn't just have sat me down and told me it wasn't working anymore for him.

I would tell him the way he did it changed me as a person, I would tell him it put me off so much that I have no desire to ever get that close to anyone else again.

I would ask him how it was so easy for him to leave, Because it almost broke me.

And I would tell him he's a spineless bastard.

''Look how much richer I turned out to be than you would ever have imagined''.

Thank you for putting my self esteem so low down the only way it could go was up.
You strung me along for 6 wasted years.
I'm living my best life now, I grabbed my chance of happiness with both hands and never looked back and very quickly stopped giving you a second thought.

Did you really think Id give everything up to move in with a narcissist, who spent every chance you got to hook up with people you met on dating apps? Ive got news for you. The person you were chatting to on POF whilst you were away with OW for her birthday was me. I told her about our conversations just so she knows now that you arent the lovely person that she thought you were. Uou fucking fat smelly loser. And clean your teeth for fucksake!

I love you let's start over

Im sorry I took you for granted and didnt pay you any attention. Im sorry I didnt work harder at us. Im sorry I left. Im sorry I didnt just enjoy the present and instead tried so hard to be grown up and focus on the future, that I didnt just enjoy us or have fun. We should have travelled more and gone on more nights out instead of saving for a mortgage that never happened. We were babies and should have enjoyed ourselves with our wages. The savings we walked away with wasnt worth the time lost or the memories I could have made with you. Im married now with DC and a good career and im happy. I know you are married with DC and hope youre happy too. We were friends for 3 years before we got together and I miss you.

Nothing. I have no desire to speak to that waste of oxygen.

If forced to, I'd tell him he's a cunt and that if he ever contacts me or my family again, I will report him to the police, again!

This song sums up my feelings towards him...

I hope your death is very slow and very painful

I hope you find peace, healing and happiness.

I hope this year hasn’t been too bad for you. You have my every sympathy and my prayers. We could never have known that we would both end up with chronic illness and a disabled child. Maybe if we had stayed together things would have been better but it could have also have been worse. Stay strong, you got this.

There's nothing I want to say to him, but I guess if you forced me I'd ask him if he's satisfied with how his life went after we broke up.

(I just can't see how he could be as after we broke up - the final time as he was serially unfaithful - he went from being top of his class to graduating at the bottom, no job for 7 years, lives & sponges off his parents, hasn't had another gf, all our mutual friends now have their own places and families etc we all thought he was super clever and destined for greatness. Now all he does is play this weird card game online (similar to Pokémon) with a bunch of teenagers.) Cant get my head around not having a job for most of a decade without a really good reason like children or illness or winning the lottery...

Nothing
He never listened !!
The best revenge is a life lived well (ish !)

Agree with the best revenge is a life well lived.

Your emotional abuse fried my head and had me thinking I was going mad. No confidence, so self esteem, screaming on the inside.

I crawled through the first year, and now I.m walking in the second. Next year I’ll be running. And all your twisted, manipulative mind games won’t be able to stop me.

I regret you being the father of my kids. I wanted so much more for our family.

Cut your hair.

Wear deodorant or shower more often.

Shave.

Most recent ex - sorry for making it impossible to love me.

You made me think I was a psychopath for thinking there was something going on with her and yet I was right. Not only did you sleep with her but you FATHERED A CHILD with her. Whilst we were going through fertility treatment. If I hadn't broken up with you we would still be together and you'd have this other little family on the side. And then you LIED about it all. When I asked you outright you lied. You always thought you were such a smooth charismatic man with good morals. You HATED people cheating and I believed you were the type to never ever do something like that. But not only are you a cheat you're a liar too. You're not the guy you think you are. I hope she soon realises that you are far far from Mr Perfect. In fact you are Mr sit on your arse and do fuck all. And hopefully she will soon realise that.

.... That felt good.