@lazylinguist
MN hates ALL DHs.
MN doesn't have an opinion about most DHs, because MN only really ever hears about the ones who are a problem.
And an awful lot of the time, a woman posts about some comparatively minor issue, like her husband continually waking her up when he turns on the bedroom light when he comes to bed, much later than her bedtime, and someone asks a side question like 'Do you have a baby? Who does night wakings?' and an entire horror story will emerge of a deeply unequal dynamic that
crucially the ground-down OP has no idea is such an unhealthy relationship.
Obviously sometimes an annoying or selfish habit is just that, but quite often these are the tip of a large and nasty iceberg and are posted about by someone who has no idea that relationships aren't supposed to be this grindingly awful.
You know all those cheery threads about 'What have you learned from Mn?' which usually feature the usual nonsense about pineapples, Gibraltar, arrows on your car dashboard, 'envelope' necks on babygros etc?
The major thing I've learned on here is that an awful lot of ordinary women are living in grotesquely unhappy and unequal relationships and think it's normal to do all cooking, childcare and housework on top of working FT with an able-bodied partner, or to have to tiptoe around the addicted gaming habits of a man who has checked out on family life because you can't interrupt a 'live' multiplayer game for anything as banal as doing bath and bedtime with your children, or to be begging someone they've had three children with to marry them, but l to have to wait for a man they invariably describe as 'traditional' to propose in his own time, which seems to involve him dangling it like a good-behaviour carrot in front of them...
Frankly, if Mn manages to open one woman's eyes to the fact that this isn't normal to the fact that, yes, men can see dirt and cook dinner, that being a CEO doesn't give you a get-out clause from family life, that women's jobs are as important as their spouses', that childcare and domestic gruntwork aren't 'women's jobs' etc, that marriage isn't a prize men grant to compliant women, that having sex you don't want isn't OK etc etc it's doing a good thing.