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AIBU?

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That in the pandemic hasn’t all been bad

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Shiraznowplease · 08/12/2020 06:22

I am wondering if AIBU in feeling the pandemic has not all been bad. I am aware I may get flamed and yes it has been horrendously bad in people dying, difficulties nor seeing loved ones and problems for business. But I feel for me , and talking to friends, others too it has made me/us grateful for my family and friends. It has shown me what is truly important, stopped the endless round of business trips for dh and after school/weekend activities for the children and instead we have spent quality time together playing games, cooking and enjoying one and another’s company. My Dc have seen dh more this year more than the rest of their lives combined.

I am a health professional so have worked all through the pandemic but have been grateful to have PPE, even if initially I had to source and fund it myself although the stress has been incredible, I feel I have made a real difference to my patients.

I am lucky that dh could work from home in a relatively secure job.

I have missed my parents and meeting with friends dreadfully though am thankful for zoom, FaceTime and other things so we could keep in touch.

It has also brought out, in my experience, community spirit and helping each other out.

OP posts:
Northernsoulgirl45 · 01/01/2021 15:01

I think the OPis just trying to stay positive.

EleanorRigbyWasReal · 01/01/2021 15:03

Well, look where we are now. Not much to be positive about where I am.

LuaDipa · 01/01/2021 17:34

It’s been shit for many people but I don’t think there is anything wrong with looking for the positives. I have made it through this year without losing any loved ones. I haven’t seen them as much as I would like, but as I still have the opportunity to see them in the future I consider myself very lucky. This doesn’t mean that I don’t feel empathy for people who have lost so much. It’s a ‘but for the grace of God situation’.

I truly hope that this year is much better for everyone.

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