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user1483782091 · 09/11/2020 18:31

Bit of a long story, my first post. Not sure if my neighbour is on here or not but I guess irrelevant. We’ve been in our house 5 years and the situation for all that time has been that we need to open and close 2 gates to get into our property, with access over the neighbours drive. Basically I drive up to their gate off the main road, open it, get back in the car, drive through, close it, walk to my gate, open it, drive through then close my gate. A nuisance but we knew it would be a pest when we bought the house. They had a little dog at the time but it was hardly ever out. Then 3 years ago they got a big woofy hound that they leave out so we invariably have to wait for them to catch the dog and put it in before we can get in or out. We can never leave either gate open, even if we’re just popping out for 5 mins in case they let their dogs out and they would either get on to the road or into our garden (we have 2 dogs). There are 2 other properties who have the same access over their drive and the same issues with the gates and dogs. The gates were never there, my neighbour installed them when their son was little with the permission of the people who had access but it was supposed to be a temporary measure. Then they got the dogs and the disputes started (before our time). They are now selling their house and we asked if they could please tell any prospective buyers that the gates would be going as they were such a nuisance for everyone and they were only ever supposed to be temporary. She agreed but is desperate to sell so basically hasn’t really mentioned it to viewers and now they have buyers who want to keep the gates as they have a dog. We, and the other neighbours found out and have written to the current neighbours and the estate agent so it’s now a dispute. She thinks we’re totally out of order and ‘shits’ for potentially jeopardizing her sale. But she’s broken promises and lied. She seems totally oblivious of the constant nuisance that they cause all the neighbours. But I don’t want to jeopardize their move I just think the gates should be gone.
What a long boring post! But she and her husband have just knocked on the door and think we’re the worst people in the world. Are we?

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user1483782091 · 13/11/2020 13:40

@Nikhedonia

Apparently the new people are very paranoid as they have had a dog run over in the past so frankly the house is the last place I would buy!

How do you know this? I agree it's the last place I would buy! Seems bonkers.

The current owner told me when she was explaining how important it is for the new people to keep the gates :-(
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MaggieFS · 13/11/2020 15:00

Then it really is the right house. Even with gates, it's not secure outside space as anyone could leave them open.

MaggieFS · 13/11/2020 15:01

Is NOT the right house FFS.

Nikhedonia · 14/11/2020 11:10

And did you tell the new owner that the current situation wouldn't be continuing?

I wonder if "sneaky barrister" neighbours have been told to just keep the dogs in a lead, sell the house as is and then it's the new neighbours problem.

BumblePan · 14/11/2020 15:56

I agree with @Nikhedonia

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