To be clear, the first salvo in this particular battle was fired by a PP who stated that anyone who didn’t like those dresses was a Dillard/dullard, by which it emerged that she meant ‘boring and lacking in imagination’
I certainly wasn't aiming that at anyone in particular, certainly not on this thread, it was a comment about those who think women should only ever dress in boring clothes, lest they show any glimmer of personality. Because we all know, especially over a certain age, we must try our best to be as invisible as possible 
Fuck me, some of you are judgemental miserable bastards!
I often wonder where the bullies from schools are now. I think some of them have found their place on MN