Would you stay with a man who...

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You have a baby with, but who doesn’t contribute financially (at all)?

Nope.

Do you love him? Is he a loving dad? Can you shove a rocket up his arse to get him into work?

Nope.

No. Why aren’t they contributing?

God no. How terribly unattractive.

No

Depends on wider context.

All depends. Was this agreed before you had the baby? Is he acting as a stay home sad, doing all the childcare and keeping the house/ cooking etc? If so, yes if the relationship was a good one.

If not, then no.

No. Wtf is wrong with him?

No. Shows a complete lack of care a s respect

No

No. I didn’t. He started off contributing but that vanished. And now we are separated he still doesn’t contribute but life is a lot better.

No.

Depends why. Plenty of women don't contribute financially and are sahm, but that's only ok if both people in the relationship are happy with that arrangement.

yes of course, If he 'contributed' in other ways that seemed adequate. Also if couldn't contribute even if he wanted to (held hostage, disabled, very ill, was a SAHD, etc).

No.

Wouldnt be in a relationship with someone in first place

Nope!!

It would very much depend on the rest f the “picture”

I know that’s not helpful but there are but without other relevant information I can’t answer.

It depends on why he doesn't contribute financially.

If he didn't work, but was home all day and doing all of the childcare which allowed me to work, whilst doing all of the housework and home admin, I wouldn't mind.

Why do l suspect this is some kind of goady reverse about SAHMs

As long as he was doing the childcare and house work then it would be fine. That’s what stay at home mums do, after all.

I wouldn’t have a baby until we agreed responsibilities, to be honest. It feels a bit Of an after the horse as bolted scenario.

Depends on the situation. If we’d agreed to it and he was a SAHD then yes, if he was just a selfish bastard who kept all his own money then no.

Great dad. 50/50 housework. Split childcare, he works but I earn much more. He doesn’t earn very much as only does short days. But I have seen £300 in 6 months