To consider seducing the hot neighbour?

[Rae34]

No idea how I'd go about it in practice but:

Hot (and I think single neighbour) is seriously gorgeous. I think he caught me admiring him from the window once when he was scantily scad one morning 😁 I did a very obvious 'quick look away from the curtain' move.

Anyway I see him out and about a lot/we say hello but that is it. Today I ran downstairs to collect something a friend was dropping off with NO make up thinking I'll see no one (but a great hair day) and there he was coming home. I clocked him giving me that up and down body sweep then he actually stopped and tried to talk to me. I rushed off to see my friend and when I came back he was still hanging around and began talking to me again (and checked me out again 😃). I had to leave but I was left thinking 'oh he fancies you too!'.

YANBU - dont ever sleep with or date a neighbour, that's crazy
YABU - It's gonna be a long cold (possibly locked down) winter, go for it.

I have no strategy and am open to suggestions. Just wanted to hear what people think.....

Can you afford to move when it all goes horribly wrong?

I got the YABU/YANBu wrong. Oh well you get the idea !

Go for it! And if it did go wrong (but let’s not be pessimistic) you can just be super British and pretend it never happened 😂

Ask him in for a coffee, see what he says

Oh I should say I will probably be moving in the next couple of months. Almost a certainty.

Lucky you. All I do when I see my nearest neighbour is shudder.

....... personally I wouldn't. What happens if your break up and you start seeing his new girlfriends coming in and out of the house? Personally, I'd like to keep my distance with neighbours... though it depends..

If you’re moving anyway there’s nothing to lose. Definitely go for it!

Sorry. Just seen your update. If your moving, then that's a different story,

Well since you're moving away, go for it.
If you owned the house and you were staying there forever then definitely not.

Go for it. You have nothing to lose if you are moving soon anyway.

I did! It's going great

Omg go for it! Tell us more!

Ages since we had a hot neighbour thread

Definitely do it him

Not on your own doorstep springs to mind. If it all goes horribly wrong, you will be stuck with him and the gossip from the surrounding neighbours forever.

Go for it. If you are moving the timing is perfect!!!

Go for it.

You're moving? Go for it. You'd be daft not to

I think I would date a neighbor if I liked them. How long have you been seeing him around?

If you are moving I would definitely keep the flirty banter going to see what happens! Try and slip some personal questions in if you can

Do it!!!!! Yummy😍

YANBU, go for it and report back

Oh, God, do it! What's there to lose?

Watch a few episodes of BBC’s Ever Decreasing Circles and then decide.

Get it girl!